spindly_killer_fish
Active member
You raise some valid points, pessimistic, but valid.So you have no money to go sailing now as, quite sensibly, you are putting life, family and security first.
That is wise and excellent. But it does put all this into absolute fantasy and pipedream territory that has virtually no chance of ever happening.
1) you don't know if you or your wife like sailing or even get seasick. I'll be provocative here but the majority of people on here have wives who at best tolerate going on a boat. There are lots of exceptions but I think if you took a straw pole of the population the chances are either you or your wife will detest it.
2) you have no passion for the water or you would be queueing up to get a cheap dinghy or cruising boat beforehand. Focusing on your existing commitments wiuld not preclude you chatering or buying incredibly cheaply.
3) tastes do indeed change over the years. Especially if you have no idea at rhe moment of how catamarans sail compared to monos or the advantages of each type. Lagoons do look jolly nice, especially to the newbie, but you might want to watch a few parley videos before buying a secondhand one.
I'll wager that you might add afew posts to this but that will be the last heard from you on a sailing forum.
Do I have access to spare money? yes but i prefer to manage it for the long term. As mentioned I will be taking some trips and or courses during the summer.
Apart from a good amount of journeys to and from Islands in Thailand and a fishing trip in Florida no other boating experience, there was no seasickness but that doesnt mean it wouldnt happen in the future, granted we were passengers and not sailing.
Passion for the water? would i like to spend days at anchor or in a marina in a tropical land? island hopping and relaxing and working on a boat at leisure? who wouldn't? I also don't own a parrot btw but do like birds.
Now the original point of this post was feasibility of such a lifestyle which has since opened my eyes to a lot of things to think about including a change from the original boat type. over the course of the next few years I will try to learn what I can and be more an more certain whether or not this can be achieved. but will i spend my days on a forum arguing over an idea for the future? no i have better things to do. but that doesnt mean I won't be reading and asking questions.