Trident
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In 2012 I had never set foot on a boat and bought a cat. I'm quite handy so I refitted it myself and I would say that is a vital part of cruising - learn to do everything on the boat yourself; plumbing, engines, electrical, woodwork, etc etc
In 2013 we sailed to the Med after a week's day skipper course. We coast hopped and took our time and learned as we went but I had read a lot first. However, turns out sailing safely is very easy and whilst we didn't trim the sails to an expert degree etc we sailed to our first winter stop in Cartagena with just two of us. Sat nav and caution makes things easy - we were whips about bad weather or sea state etc that more experienced sailors may have been fine with but so what?
Spent 5 years in the Med, anchored most of the time, lived on an average of £500 on a 35 foot cat that cost me £35K including a full refit. Then bought a 50 foot which we still have and other than an enforced covid stop have sailed since 2018 now with much more experience (35-40000 miles - haven't actually added it up) and have built the new boat to be fast, completely self sufficient for water and power and use less than 60 hours of engine a season on average.
You can easily do it if you want to. You need not spend anything like £250k for a decent cat - a really nice fast (too big for a first boat) 50ft has just sold in good condition for under £200k from a broker in the UK. They also have a lot of less expensive smaller stuff and of course plenty of more expensive. My advice would be once you are certain start looking for a boat sooner - now even. You can dedicate some weekends to fixing up and learning the skills you will need (as I said sailing can be learned in a few days - but cruising is fixing boats in exotic places and that takes some more time and doing is the best way of learning) - if you're not prepared to do that now I can guarantee you won't like the cruising life.
You can then practice on your own boat and crucially you and your wife can spend time aboard in cramped conditions with only each other for company - for many that is what kills the dream. You can buy many budget boats in the south of the Caribbean because so many US couples leave the US and only get that far before the divorce !
Just as an indication my 50 foot cat will do 16-18 knots, has 4 double berths, 2kw solar and 700 ah lithium, full electric cooking, a 100l/h water maker, two new (100hrs now) Yanmar engines, and a full refit with new modern instruments, radar , all new electrics plumbing and interior, new rigging, some new sails (bought second hand but unused by careful looking around) etc etc and all hull cracks and leaks etc repaired, new windows , hatches and port lights etc and owes me under £100K and about 250 full time days or my own labour. With your budget you could start with a better shape boat and put in fewer hours but I'd still say get something you will need to work on yourself and know where every wire and pipe is.
In 2013 we sailed to the Med after a week's day skipper course. We coast hopped and took our time and learned as we went but I had read a lot first. However, turns out sailing safely is very easy and whilst we didn't trim the sails to an expert degree etc we sailed to our first winter stop in Cartagena with just two of us. Sat nav and caution makes things easy - we were whips about bad weather or sea state etc that more experienced sailors may have been fine with but so what?
Spent 5 years in the Med, anchored most of the time, lived on an average of £500 on a 35 foot cat that cost me £35K including a full refit. Then bought a 50 foot which we still have and other than an enforced covid stop have sailed since 2018 now with much more experience (35-40000 miles - haven't actually added it up) and have built the new boat to be fast, completely self sufficient for water and power and use less than 60 hours of engine a season on average.
You can easily do it if you want to. You need not spend anything like £250k for a decent cat - a really nice fast (too big for a first boat) 50ft has just sold in good condition for under £200k from a broker in the UK. They also have a lot of less expensive smaller stuff and of course plenty of more expensive. My advice would be once you are certain start looking for a boat sooner - now even. You can dedicate some weekends to fixing up and learning the skills you will need (as I said sailing can be learned in a few days - but cruising is fixing boats in exotic places and that takes some more time and doing is the best way of learning) - if you're not prepared to do that now I can guarantee you won't like the cruising life.
You can then practice on your own boat and crucially you and your wife can spend time aboard in cramped conditions with only each other for company - for many that is what kills the dream. You can buy many budget boats in the south of the Caribbean because so many US couples leave the US and only get that far before the divorce !
Just as an indication my 50 foot cat will do 16-18 knots, has 4 double berths, 2kw solar and 700 ah lithium, full electric cooking, a 100l/h water maker, two new (100hrs now) Yanmar engines, and a full refit with new modern instruments, radar , all new electrics plumbing and interior, new rigging, some new sails (bought second hand but unused by careful looking around) etc etc and all hull cracks and leaks etc repaired, new windows , hatches and port lights etc and owes me under £100K and about 250 full time days or my own labour. With your budget you could start with a better shape boat and put in fewer hours but I'd still say get something you will need to work on yourself and know where every wire and pipe is.