Portofino
Well-known member
Hi Robin ,
Thx for the final Del trip vid .Well put together.
Listen don,t dwell on the “ shut down “ thing .Ive seen it loads of times in guys .
Put it down to inexperience of being out in those condition s .In the military there’s a ramped training process and selection procedure .Birds of a feather often are grouped together .When a newbie enters the fold and the going gets tough ,they ( the group post - Higher -selection process) - just get going, often overlooking or forgetting the newbies cos they are concentrating on the job in hand .
You just assume the newbies have gone through or had similar training and selection and are like your self .Ok with this .
The leader allways in “mission objective must be accomplished “ mode -
Weighing up risks Vs objective,as more and 8hit is thrown into the mix .
As the situation deteriorates and there’s more and more stuff for the experienced guys to handle ,the let’s call it the pastoral care of the newbie slips down the priority list .
It’s on a list but way down - hence let you lie down in his cabin in this instance .
It’s the best place in this case - you are out of the way and safe .
Sure there’s lots of compassion and tbh guilt from the leader - “ could we have briefed the newbie better “ etc
“ forgot it’s his first time “ “ thought he would be ok - we are busy here “ etc
Once everybody’s safe so to speak and in this case the boats in a marina , then thoughts turn to the newbie .
The correct decision was made to RTU you .
In military speak that’s Return To Unit . basically get you out - Absolutely no shame or guilt on your behalf.
Happens a lot ,
Two things happen
Some of the guys return ,come back after let’s call it a after a proper gentle ramp up of the experience ( more training) and become excellent at what they do -
Some guys are put off - it’s not for them - just a cruel way to find out .
So my advice is ( I know this is civy street ) you are gonna have take the boat out again to sea - and but in calmer weather a short trip , perhaps with Griff and his bro along - nice tee shirt summers day - have a play - occupies your self with your nav gear etc .
Basically set you own gradient on the sea state experience ramp .
You will get there - good luck with the boat :encouragement:
Thx for the final Del trip vid .Well put together.
Listen don,t dwell on the “ shut down “ thing .Ive seen it loads of times in guys .
Put it down to inexperience of being out in those condition s .In the military there’s a ramped training process and selection procedure .Birds of a feather often are grouped together .When a newbie enters the fold and the going gets tough ,they ( the group post - Higher -selection process) - just get going, often overlooking or forgetting the newbies cos they are concentrating on the job in hand .
You just assume the newbies have gone through or had similar training and selection and are like your self .Ok with this .
The leader allways in “mission objective must be accomplished “ mode -
Weighing up risks Vs objective,as more and 8hit is thrown into the mix .
As the situation deteriorates and there’s more and more stuff for the experienced guys to handle ,the let’s call it the pastoral care of the newbie slips down the priority list .
It’s on a list but way down - hence let you lie down in his cabin in this instance .
It’s the best place in this case - you are out of the way and safe .
Sure there’s lots of compassion and tbh guilt from the leader - “ could we have briefed the newbie better “ etc
“ forgot it’s his first time “ “ thought he would be ok - we are busy here “ etc
Once everybody’s safe so to speak and in this case the boats in a marina , then thoughts turn to the newbie .
The correct decision was made to RTU you .
In military speak that’s Return To Unit . basically get you out - Absolutely no shame or guilt on your behalf.
Happens a lot ,
Two things happen
Some of the guys return ,come back after let’s call it a after a proper gentle ramp up of the experience ( more training) and become excellent at what they do -
Some guys are put off - it’s not for them - just a cruel way to find out .
So my advice is ( I know this is civy street ) you are gonna have take the boat out again to sea - and but in calmer weather a short trip , perhaps with Griff and his bro along - nice tee shirt summers day - have a play - occupies your self with your nav gear etc .
Basically set you own gradient on the sea state experience ramp .
You will get there - good luck with the boat :encouragement:
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