SvenH
Active member
I count myself lucky in that my other half enjoys sailing as much as I do, and that she says "Nice!" when the wind picks up.
On the sailing part we function more or less as equals.
But when maneuvering things are different, but both of us would like them to be more the same.
Maneuvering in this context is anywhere between having the sails up and being docked, plus busy situations when either under sail or under power.
I take my role as skipper very seriously with regards to safety of boat and occupants but I think that safety is also a bit too much on the scratches side of things.
I don't want my wife to make mistakes in a way that probably prevents her from learning and that nine out of ten times probably would go fine without my interaction.
It is just that as we get in to a situation where I need to gather all the info at once but my wife has a better overview than me because she has been at the helm for some time, I still take over because that gives me a quicker feel for the situation, but that does not help in building confidence for my wife.
I'd like my wife to gain confidence in being at the helm in the more involved work, and for that I will need to take a step back.
Do any of you have experience in this kind of thing?
Oh, and maybe good to know, we are a crew of three, including a 4 year old.
On the sailing part we function more or less as equals.
But when maneuvering things are different, but both of us would like them to be more the same.
Maneuvering in this context is anywhere between having the sails up and being docked, plus busy situations when either under sail or under power.
I take my role as skipper very seriously with regards to safety of boat and occupants but I think that safety is also a bit too much on the scratches side of things.
I don't want my wife to make mistakes in a way that probably prevents her from learning and that nine out of ten times probably would go fine without my interaction.
It is just that as we get in to a situation where I need to gather all the info at once but my wife has a better overview than me because she has been at the helm for some time, I still take over because that gives me a quicker feel for the situation, but that does not help in building confidence for my wife.
I'd like my wife to gain confidence in being at the helm in the more involved work, and for that I will need to take a step back.
Do any of you have experience in this kind of thing?
Oh, and maybe good to know, we are a crew of three, including a 4 year old.