Metabarca
Well-Known Member
Hi, been there, done that (dream for two becomes handful for one; in my case, house in Italy). I appreciate the angst of seeing your echoing dream-boat inhabited by memories and ghosts but, unless you're weird, the time will surely come when your burden will suddenly be a dream again again, and you'll think to yourself, "hey, what was all the fuss about?". It seems impossible now, perhaps, but it happens (did to me!) and this bad period will suddenly become a small scar in your psyche. If what you ultimately want is another partner, then he will come, out of the blue (perhaps literally!). Now is NOT the time to give up on your dream. Now is the time to persevere KNOWING that things are getting better every day. Take your sailing in small steps and remember Nietzsche (I think): "That which does not kill me makes me stronger".
Fair winds!
Fair winds!
