Essential boating skills #49: Get mad!

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There's a problem with the boat. I report the problem. No action. So, I report the problem again, in detail. They agree to fix and a date. The date comes and goes. Eventually I ring them and go mad down the phone. The guy turns up the same day and fixes things. Then, the boss of the company rings me and tells me not to go mad, there no need for that sort of language. I say sorry, and the boss of the company says well that's ok, he knows it's frustrating, and it's all friends again.

Later, at a marina, we're mooring stern-to. The blokes from the marina turn up, and pull up the wrong forward lines, so they go around the prop. Not to worry, say the guys, the diver will sort that out tomorrow morning. No diver in the morning. Wife rings the marina to say where are they. A chap from the marina turns up. But he's not the diver. He says it's a public holiday and shrugs his shoulders. Tomorrow perhaps - no - that's Sunday, so it'll be Monday now. I go effing mental at the young chap and tellim we are leaving today. Worried at this outburst, the young man calls people on his mobile phon. The diver turns up within 20 minutes. Later, the marina boss comes down and asks if everything is sorted. Yes, we say. He says he's pleased that it's all sorted, but - there's absolutely no need WHATSOEVER to make a scene and shout at the staff. I say sorry.


But, as before, at the first few times of asking whilst being nice and pleasant, there was no action. Then, after I went beserk, I achieved the (not unreasonable) required response, which had already been promised. So, there WAS a need to go mad. Indeed, without me going mad, the problem would still be unresolved. So, I'm not really sorry for going up the wall. I'm sorry that me going mental is clearly the only trigger that the supplier/marina staff have ever had to lift their game. I'm sory that their boss left me to do his job of jolting them into action, whilst he avoided facing the music, waited until the problem was resolved before he strutted down to re-establish authority over me as the real "Boss", obviously much more important than "Customer" in his eyes. Or was he jealous that I can get his staff to perform whilst he can't? I'm sorry that the only way to get some people to do things is go raving mental, and then having to say sorry. Sorry.
 

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I hate to admit it, but it's a technique I have to use quite often! People are just not listening to you until you do shout at them, then they get the job done and you feel bad about shouting, never mind, I just go and have a malt! Makes me feel better, but I don't give a stuff if it upset them! I got the service/equipment I wanted and they have another story of these crazy Brits, to tell their mates and how they made him apologise (that'll show him!), teflon shoulders I've got.
 

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Are you having a go?

Wanna take this outside then?????

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C

<P ID="edit"><FONT SIZE=-1>Edited by cngarrod on 12/08/2002 15:08 (server time).</FONT></P>
 

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Re: Essential boating skills #50: run away!

ooer, obviously if bionic colin with the teflon shoulders calls my bluff then it's time to back down. Mind you, mebbe his arms are made of rolled-up lino or bits of renovated cushion covers?
 

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Re: Essential boating skills #50: run away!

Oy! watch yer' lip! Northsea tiger me! (More like mediterranean pussy cat!) :)
 

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Re: Essential boating skills #50: run away!

well.. you know what the brits are like abroad! - just kidding Colin...

On a serious note... you are correct.. other peoples definition of acceptable is different to my own... maybe it is because these lovely floating toys we have cost a small fortune and therefore we tend to get a bit irrate if some marina moron doesn't have the same time pressure as I!

My father always told me... i will ask you once, i will tell you a second time.. if there is a third... then get ready to run... simple philosophy... got me through a few disagreements in the past.... but may have got me into a few as well :)

Cheers,

C

PS - Keep up the shouting... i got shares in a blood pressure drug company!
 

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Why say sorry? I use the same technique, most recently with the idiots at British Telecom.

After one fairly polite convo.. no swearing at all honest! and not raising my voice at all, the daft bint on the line hung up on me saying I was being abusive. Called back, spoke to the supervisor, demonstrated what abusive really was, told them to check the tapes of the call. Got myself a nice little £50 apology.

Thing is few people these days seem to have a clue what proper service is. (Although a chap at Sainsbury the other night was annoyingly helpful trying to track down some Motts Clamato juice for SWMBO's Caesers)

Yelling, threats of legal action and writing to CEO Board Chairperson seems to be the only way to get people to do what you are/have paid them to do in a manner that is acceptable.
 

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You can still get clamato? Love it in bloody marys! Or whatever they are called with clamato. Can't find it easily anymore.
 
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