Daydream believer
Well-known member
This thread is really about bad mannered ignorant oafs & I think to connect them with racers is somewhat unfair. True whilst racing some crews see the red mist but most cruisers understand that & tend to use a bit of common sense, cut some slack & keep out of the way. Most cruising sailors do not have to deliberately obstruct a racing fleet although sometimes it just happens & we should learn to live with it. My experience of racers is that a crew member would give me a wave of thanks & when I am racing i will certainly thank any cruiser giving way. If they do not, then I accept it & stick to the rules; unless they themselves are overcome with the situation in which case it is better to give them room.
When it comes to returning to a marina berth the racing is over & we should all be on equal footing. All the crews barging into the bogs & taking over when one is trying to get a peaceful shower is one annoying feature I dislike.
But banging into someones boat by a racer is actually a lot less likely than the other way round. Most racing crews can handle their boats & take a pride in getting it right. The average cruiser with wife & 2 kids, however, can sometimes struggle & make the odd mistake.
To start blasting off or to be totally a bombastic buffoon has absolutely no place within the sailing community. Mistakes can & should be sorted amicably, Irritating as they can be.
It sounds as if the OP probably has a more placid nature & being confronted by a person of this nature has come as a shock to the system. I think most of us would sympathise regardless of what damage was done.
I would say that to label all racers as the same is simply wrong.
I know that if I hit someones boat I would be extremely sheepish, embarrassed & apologetic
However, on confrontation with the arse described i would suggest that a good face to face argument - at which I am well versed having come from the building trade- would be the best approach. He would not walk away without feeling suitably insulted.
When it comes to returning to a marina berth the racing is over & we should all be on equal footing. All the crews barging into the bogs & taking over when one is trying to get a peaceful shower is one annoying feature I dislike.
But banging into someones boat by a racer is actually a lot less likely than the other way round. Most racing crews can handle their boats & take a pride in getting it right. The average cruiser with wife & 2 kids, however, can sometimes struggle & make the odd mistake.
To start blasting off or to be totally a bombastic buffoon has absolutely no place within the sailing community. Mistakes can & should be sorted amicably, Irritating as they can be.
It sounds as if the OP probably has a more placid nature & being confronted by a person of this nature has come as a shock to the system. I think most of us would sympathise regardless of what damage was done.
I would say that to label all racers as the same is simply wrong.
I know that if I hit someones boat I would be extremely sheepish, embarrassed & apologetic
However, on confrontation with the arse described i would suggest that a good face to face argument - at which I am well versed having come from the building trade- would be the best approach. He would not walk away without feeling suitably insulted.
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