stranded
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My wife and I decided we would move to France. This autumn we started language classes with Alliance Française. We’re both crap and haven’t a cat in hells chance of reaching the b1 standard which I understand is likely to be required to achieve permanent residency.
I have always decried Brits who move to another country and do not learn the language. Now I am (with great shame) looking at ways to join them - gotta get out of here somehow.
Be interested to know from those who have got some sort of status which allows them to live long term in a country without being proficient in the language how they find the reality.
For example, I can over a few beers in a bar have quite an interesting chat with a French person in Franglais, although it is never clear whether we both thought we were having the same conversation. But bar talk is special - it is all about the connection - the content is pretty immaterial. I cannot imagine then going round to dinner at theirs and developing an actual relationship - my crapness is sufficiently amusing in itself to sustain for a couple of hours, but there is then nowhere to go.
So do those of you who are based overseas all have decent language proficiency. Do you just hang out with anglophones (apologies to the non-Anglophones on here whose English puts many of my compatriots to shame) and get by in your pidgin language when you have to interact with the locals. Has anyone thought like us that they would be unable to learn a language then amazed themselves by actually being in the country.
All sounds very naive but I have always assumed I could learn most things if I put my mind to it, but have discovered that I may just have the wrong kind of mind.
I have always decried Brits who move to another country and do not learn the language. Now I am (with great shame) looking at ways to join them - gotta get out of here somehow.
Be interested to know from those who have got some sort of status which allows them to live long term in a country without being proficient in the language how they find the reality.
For example, I can over a few beers in a bar have quite an interesting chat with a French person in Franglais, although it is never clear whether we both thought we were having the same conversation. But bar talk is special - it is all about the connection - the content is pretty immaterial. I cannot imagine then going round to dinner at theirs and developing an actual relationship - my crapness is sufficiently amusing in itself to sustain for a couple of hours, but there is then nowhere to go.
So do those of you who are based overseas all have decent language proficiency. Do you just hang out with anglophones (apologies to the non-Anglophones on here whose English puts many of my compatriots to shame) and get by in your pidgin language when you have to interact with the locals. Has anyone thought like us that they would be unable to learn a language then amazed themselves by actually being in the country.
All sounds very naive but I have always assumed I could learn most things if I put my mind to it, but have discovered that I may just have the wrong kind of mind.