telmate
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The Southampton boat show beckons and my life will become a misery. I have already received complimentary tickets and I'll drag my family down to the show and will (for the third year) contemplate buying a boat. My heart says 'do it' and my head says 'depreciation, recession, best put my money into property, family won't like it, mooring costs, what if I don't enjoy it - can I sell it easily and what will I lose? I've subscribed to MBY and MBM for the last few years, researched every boat and my wife and children can name virtually any boat they see!
I'm afraid to say I have placed a couple of orders at previous shows (pending sea trial} and then cancelled. I have done a 5 day ICC in rough weather in the Solent, a Day Skipper course and many days out on my friend's boat but I just can't bring myself to part with the money for a 45foot Princess or Fairline Phantom... But then I really want one. I suppose I could buy smaller but with a large family this size of boat seems ideal.I see so many boats just sitting in marinas - do people get bored with them? I've also considered buying second hand but my family say if I'm buying one it's best to buy new because we can spec out the boat etc.Also a lot of the second hand boats we have seen leave a lot to be desired.
I don't usually vacillate to this extent but I can see myself ordering another one and then immediately regretting it. Is this normal and what advice would you give me?
I'm afraid to say I have placed a couple of orders at previous shows (pending sea trial} and then cancelled. I have done a 5 day ICC in rough weather in the Solent, a Day Skipper course and many days out on my friend's boat but I just can't bring myself to part with the money for a 45foot Princess or Fairline Phantom... But then I really want one. I suppose I could buy smaller but with a large family this size of boat seems ideal.I see so many boats just sitting in marinas - do people get bored with them? I've also considered buying second hand but my family say if I'm buying one it's best to buy new because we can spec out the boat etc.Also a lot of the second hand boats we have seen leave a lot to be desired.
I don't usually vacillate to this extent but I can see myself ordering another one and then immediately regretting it. Is this normal and what advice would you give me?