aquatart
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Can anyone please help me. I feel my husband is slipping away from me.
It all started about two years ago. He’s always had a weak will when it comes to other distractions (V8’s and cold pints of larger on a summers day to name a couple) and I have a hard job competing with certain temptations.
His fascination started when he obtained a very sexy little number called Ms Viao. She originally came from a “special” place called Sony. I could tolerate her as he was able to give me attention whilst fulfilling his relationship with her, nestled very nicely on the coffee table. She was flexible and everywhere he went, she went with him in her special leather case. I didn’t have to face her whilst he wasn’t at home. I knew she couldn’t satisfy him totally as, although she had the smooth lines and a memory to die for, she couldn’t cook and she didn’t know how to operate the washing machine. He would always need me.
Now however, I am living the nightmare. A few weeks ago, unbeknown to me, he gave in to temptation and “committed” totally to the new love in his life. Her name is Ms Dell and she arrived in our home four weeks ago. I am gutted. Every time I turn around, she is there. A permanent fixture taunting me, sitting in the corner of the living room. Sometimes, in the dead of night I am sure I can almost hear her hard drive buzzing (or maybe it‘s where he leaves her live because he can not bear to switch the life from her when he must sleep, I don‘t know. I believed that, with Ms Viao in our lives my marriage had a chance but I don’t know how to compete with “Ms Dell (I can deliver more than my master can demand) Pentium Celeron. No longer can my spag boll even compete with her 1.8 Ghz as he spends every waking moment tinkering with her keys. I only get the od grunt every now and again. I feel am completely dispensable. I am at the end of my tether. What am I to do. Am I the only SWMBO who has this problem? Please help.
<hr width=100% size=1>Blonds know how to party and break ice
It all started about two years ago. He’s always had a weak will when it comes to other distractions (V8’s and cold pints of larger on a summers day to name a couple) and I have a hard job competing with certain temptations.
His fascination started when he obtained a very sexy little number called Ms Viao. She originally came from a “special” place called Sony. I could tolerate her as he was able to give me attention whilst fulfilling his relationship with her, nestled very nicely on the coffee table. She was flexible and everywhere he went, she went with him in her special leather case. I didn’t have to face her whilst he wasn’t at home. I knew she couldn’t satisfy him totally as, although she had the smooth lines and a memory to die for, she couldn’t cook and she didn’t know how to operate the washing machine. He would always need me.
Now however, I am living the nightmare. A few weeks ago, unbeknown to me, he gave in to temptation and “committed” totally to the new love in his life. Her name is Ms Dell and she arrived in our home four weeks ago. I am gutted. Every time I turn around, she is there. A permanent fixture taunting me, sitting in the corner of the living room. Sometimes, in the dead of night I am sure I can almost hear her hard drive buzzing (or maybe it‘s where he leaves her live because he can not bear to switch the life from her when he must sleep, I don‘t know. I believed that, with Ms Viao in our lives my marriage had a chance but I don’t know how to compete with “Ms Dell (I can deliver more than my master can demand) Pentium Celeron. No longer can my spag boll even compete with her 1.8 Ghz as he spends every waking moment tinkering with her keys. I only get the od grunt every now and again. I feel am completely dispensable. I am at the end of my tether. What am I to do. Am I the only SWMBO who has this problem? Please help.
<hr width=100% size=1>Blonds know how to party and break ice