Nostrodamus
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Go in any restaurant and you are more likley than not to be served by someone of Polish origin.
I'm a great believer in attempting to speak the language/s of the country and when going somewhere new always make sure that I can say hello, please and thank you at the very least. My experience is that if I try they will then make more effort to communicate with me!
Go in any restaurant and you are more likley than not to be served by someone of Polish origin.
Portuguese is a tricky language; I have some Spanish (to O Level standard) and thought that it would be a doddle to get by in Portuguese. Some words are, indeed, similar but it's a combination of Spanish and Arabic (long history of colonial conquest), and a linguist friend of mine even compares the sibilance of spoken Portuguese to Russian. You haven't got a chance(though if in doubt find a school aged kid - they all learn English at school nowadays, I think).
However, even a few words will get you by - "Obrigado/a", "boa dia" and dois cervejas por favor" will get you through most crises![]()
I don't understand how this debate is still going on. English is the official, internationally recognised language of the sea. It doesn't matter who's waters you're in. Likewise with aviation.
After a good many years living in France, my SIL who is married to a Frenchman, still gets frustrated with the language. Her French is superb, but she reports that there are occasions in conversation where people make out they dont understand what she is saying, maybe just because of a slight pronunciation issue. She claims that even talking with friends the French can be exceedingly awkward.
I will sometimes write a serious question in a way that will get some interesting responses. I think that this one certainly has.
I've no problem with the idea of learning major languages before visiting them - but why would I want to learn Welsh ? To be able to communicate with 0.000000000001% (ok, so it's a guess ...) of the world's population ? And yet many Welsh actually expect it - certainly around Caernarfon and Anglesey. I think the arrogance there lies not with the visitor.
Hear hear. It takes little effort to try, and shows respect and consideration. Besides, its fun too!To ask the question is to answer it.
Just to the best you can.
Most people everywhere appreciate the effort you put in, and if you're struggling many will 'help you out' with their best effort of English.
I have little sympathy for expats who confine themselves to arrogantly shouting at Johnny Foreigner in English.
Look, before people send out to have me assassinated I have to say the following.
I will sometimes write a serious question in a way that will get some interesting responses. I think that this one certainly has.
I agree that it is important to make an effort when going to another country. I knew basic French before coming here but regional accents in France can be far worse than in England.
Since being here our French improved somewhat initially but over winter I have had daily French and English lessons with my neighbour who could not speak English. We also joined a French club on our first week of being here. This club will only speak French but will help you. We have also made friends with many French people and were invited to a Judges house for lunch. We have made the best efforts we can to integrate into the French society and as a result we have enjoyed our stay so much more. I can now understand and say quiet a lot but it is not an easy language.
We will be leaving soon for Spain so my son has spent the winter learning basic Spanish.
The important part is that we have made an effort and do understand the radio.
How many of those on a weekend jolly across the channel do not understand the language at all and may find themselves not understanding what was said on the radio.
French sailors on the whole are wonderful and enthusiastic sailors but believe me they will do the most unexpected things and being able to ask them what they are doing on the radio may save you a whole heap of trouble.
The other point is that life is so much easier and enjoyable if you know the language. My preconceptions about the French have changed so much and I really enjoy their way of life.
Hear hear. It takes little effort to try, and shows respect and consideration. Besides, its fun too!
I presume it's your sister in law, and not your son in law, who married the Frenchman?