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Norman,Since with our present boat, we are almost never alongside anywhere, I have very little current experience of rafting. Our boat is not a status symbol sitting in a marina. It is for sailing and cruising, with all that that entails. Mainly we anchor, so it is normal for mud and sometimes weed, to come aboard, which then gets washed off with the deckwash hose. If someone is so materialistic and obsessive that they go all bubbly at the idea of other yachtspeople crossing their decks in their ordinary sailing shoes, maybe they should avoid the possibility by never going in alongside. PS I don't have teak decks.
I don’t think words like materialistic and obsessive are helpful. We all have different priorities. I read this morning of a handbag that apparently has a cost of £14k. I can’t imagine anything more ridiculous than spending £14k on a handbag but if that’s what spins their wheels then fair enough. They’re employing folk to make £14k somewhere and someone’s making a profit, fair enough. I wouldn’t refer to a person who bought such a thing materialistic and obsessive, it’s what floats their particular boat, nothing to do with me.
I agree that the best strategy for the OP might be not to mix the oil and water, see my recent post. I don’t watch Strictly come Dancing, most of the nation does. I avoid it. I don’t mix the oil and the water.