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Despite my previously- expressed snobbery about the build quality of these marques, I was extremely comfortable on the Beneteau 393.
The 393 felt more spacious than the Jeanneau 37, both in the cabin and cockpit, despite being very close in actual length.
I guess when it comes to space and comfort, the law of diminishing returns of kicks in at about 40', because I wouldn't spend extra money for a Jeanneau 45.2 over the Beneteau 393.
I'm most comfortable with 2 - 4 people on a boat this size, and a couple with two kids would probably be fine on the 393. It didn't feel crowded with 3 adult men in the cockpit, so I guess it depends how fussy you are about the size of the master cabin.
They're like Ford cars - if you buy one that's 10 years old you'll probably have to repair things occasionally, but if you just want it for 6 months you can probably buy one, if you're canny, and sell it when you're done without much depreciation.
I haven't sailed on a Bav, but some of these other comments sound encouraging.
393s are nice for the OPs requirements, I spent 4 months on one in the Ionian, but I think he would get a 411 for his budget.
Drop down transoms: does any one like them? Dreadful wave slap in anything other than mirror calm conditions plus faff of deployment / lifting.
At the risk of MyBoatIsBest syndrome, the Jeanneau XXi models have great transom design. Low steps and useful liferaft stowage. Lots of other design flaws such as the enormously wide cockpit but the transom, c'est magnifique.