Do you wave?

I must confess to being a waver too. It costs you nothing and you never know you may need their help later on. I also dip my ensign to RN warships too.
 
AJB43 - spot on!

Oh, and my name's Pete and I'm a waver. It's been two days since my last wave and I know I'll feel the need to wave again in four days.
 
What's the consensus on a ferry load of people?

Do you wave at all of them or just the ones who wave at you?....I must admit I feel like a muppet waving at a ferry, not for the kids and parents who have waved at me to start with, but for the people the deck below who think I've started it by waving at them, then they wave back, before you know it the whole ferry has a Mexican wave going round the decks! :D
 
I'll wave to anyone.....................it is nice to think that I may have friends:D
I dip my ensign too when I see Grey Funnel Line.

I did notice when sailing in the Solent at the beginning of the month that fewer waved back than I am used to on the East Coast.

Trouble is, on a busy day in the Solent you could get RSI from waving.

As a moboer, it's always a bit tricky to know whether to wave or not, because you may or may not get a response. I tend to wait until some kind of eye contact has been established and then wave.

I got a very cheery wave from Evadne the other day - not sure if he'd recognised the boat or is just a naturally friendly type. The latter, I suspect.

I hate to bolster stereotypes, but subjectively, most of the non-wavers seem to have a bl** ens*gn :)

Off to sample the East Coast this weekend, so I'll be able to compare regions.
 
I'm generally a waver and mostly people wave back even though I'm 70-80 and ugly. I sail a slightly prettier than average small AWB and I have noticed that I'm totally invisible to any boat I'm overtaking, especially bigger ones with see-through sails.
I've obviously never come across wetspot because I've never seen anyone on a mobo look back to admire the carnage in their wake.
 
I always wave - at everyone, including mobos and jetskis - they usually look slightly surprised and wave back - at least on the East coast they do.

The real challenge is to get the fishermen to wave back!
 
I wave, but I have a "waving order":

1. Other sailboats: wave
2. Slow wooden mobos: wave
3. Plastic mobos: no wave, but return wave if boat behave seamanlike and/or has pretty girls aboard
4. Big washy Gin Palace: no wave, no return
5. Speedboats and jetskis: no comment needed.

Mobo/Raggie war post. How original!

I wait until we are passing port to port and wave if we make eye contact. Most give a wave back, some look away.
 
I like to play the staring game. Size and other up and wee who wimps out first. And then...



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Why are we all waving and being friendly and calling each other by our first names?

What has happened to good old British reserve?

Country's going to the dogs.

Harrumph! :(
 
Why do people wave?

The question that arises in my mind is why people get so het up about whether or not people wave. Extraordinary.

Where I sail, people tend to acknowledge each other with a smile and a raised hand when boats pass close. The means of propulsion is neither here nor there. It's a pleasant custom and a nice way to show visitors (we get a lot from Belgium and the Netherlands) a warm welcome.

But something to get excited about? Something to get offended about?

Beats me.
 
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My name is Peter, I am a waver. My wife's name is Jean, she loves to wave - even seagulls get a wave.

BUT, for you peeps in the big gin palaces, roaring past, watching us turn into your six ft wake, the movement of our hands with one finger pointing skyward is NOT a wave.
 
Not at all, it's what I do, and BTW it seems to go vice versa as well, speedboats and Gin palaces almost never do the first wave anyway.

Especially if helming from inside (we can see you through the glass you know!)

Fishing boats, now they never wave, miserable swine's...
 
wave thread

Bloody hell - 57 thread messages on such a frivolous subject!

Yes we wave, always, and try to initiate the sequence.
For me it's a bit like shaking hands, a form of greeting, not done so much in the UK nowadays , but still de rigeur almost everywhere else!

Michael.
 
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