Wansworth
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When they are selling their boat.Are there any giveaway signs they are telling porkies?
Yes,was thinking if a owner would actually tell me if they knew their boat had signs of a deck delaminationpersonally I couldn’t not mention defects,I would feel guilty,although it’s a buyer beware situationTruth is a slippery construct. In modern speak it depends on whose truth you are hearing!
Exactly so - lying by omission is very commonI was once told by someone who you had to watch that he never told a lie, but he didn't always tell all the truth. Caveat Emptor.
Only if in writing or recorded.a false answer could be used against the seller later
Some useful hints thereA few people are experts at telling lies (some do it for a living!), but many (most?) people are poor at telling consistent lies.
Ask many questions and don't be afraid to ask them the same question in a different way, or even the very same question again later (e.g. 'remind me why you changed X?' or 'what happened to Y?', 'when did Z happen?'.
Are they evasive? Do they claim to not know something when that's very hard to believe. Are they curiously vague in some answers?
Ask what sort of sailing they did. Does it add up with the condition and equipment of the boat? One boat I was so keen on I begged the afternoon off work the day I saw the ad to dash down to see before anybody else snapped it up. The owner told me he'd done quite intrepid sea trips for a 20 footer (e.g. S. Devon round Lands End to N. Cornwall), but there were no nav lights etc. and it didn't add up. I could easily add nav lights, but as he unnecessarily lied about something inconsequential, what else of what he said could I trust.
One boat owner was an extreme case of the above sort of thing. I was very seriously interested in the boat, viewed and inspected it in detail on more than one occasion, including returning with my then partner to get her 'approval' (it was more expensive than any boat I'd previously owned, but I had the money at the time). The owner said he'd studied (and qualified?) to be a marine surveyor, but claimed never to have noticed the distinct kink in the backstay, plus the same for some other not-major-but-obviously-needs-sorting issue I can't remember but had noticed and asked him about; he had some vague and unconvincing tale about how some obvious minor damage had been caused by someone else, but I later found he'd previously told a completely different and very plausible tale of how he'd caused it on a very well known sailing forum (no names, no pack drill! ); on the same or another forum I found he'd asked for advice on a potentially serious structural problem he'd previously had and then subsequently fixed relatively simply, but he hadn't mentioned that to me (if he had just said 'I had this problem and fixed it by doing that' I would have been quite happy, subject to having a quick look at the repair); he was an experienced sailor (very experienced according to him) but claimed he couldn't really say how well this boat sailed as he'd only daysailed it in good weather, motoring out of the harbour then reaching back and forth - completely unbelievable to me that an experienced sailor wouldn't have been curious about and explored his (then) new boat's performance to some degree, even had he not also told me separately of the long-distance delivery he'd made of the same boat! (I assumed his avoidance meant the sail performance was poor, but have since learnt it is rather better than I'd assumed, so that lie backfired!) So I didn't trust him any further than I could throw him, but was somehow still keen on that boat, and wanted a brief sail and motor up and down the river (the boat was afloat) to check the motor & gearbox worked OK and the sailing performance wasn't even worse than I'd assumed, before making an offer and coughing up for it to be lifted for a professional survey. He readily agreed to the test sail/motor, but kept delaying fixing a date for it. I'd then seen through the window some small engine parts in packets lying about, and he said was having the yard sort (make some mod?) to improve the 'well known issue' that make/model of engine had with starting in cold weather, but despite a thorough search of the internet I could find no mentions of cold-starting problems with that model engine. He never did get back to me again with the date for that test sail! I assume he had some major engine problem. I bought a very similar boat a few months later. His boat remained for sale for a long time, at one point parked ashore immediately next to my old boat!
Some useful hints there
From your experience do people selling their cars always tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truthWhen they are selling their boat.Are there any giveaway signs they are telling porkies?
A few people are experts at telling lies (some do it for a living!), but many (most?) people are poor at telling consistent lies.
Ask many questions and don't be afraid to ask them the same question in a different way, or even the very same question again later (e.g. 'remind me why you changed X?' or 'what happened to Y?', 'when did Z happen?'.
Are they evasive? Do they claim to not know something when that's very hard to believe. Are they curiously vague in some answers?
Ask what sort of sailing they did. Does it add up with the condition and equipment of the boat? One boat I was so keen on I begged the afternoon off work the day I saw the ad to dash down to see before anybody else snapped it up. The owner told me he'd done quite intrepid sea trips for a 20 footer (e.g. S. Devon round Lands End to N. Cornwall), but there were no nav lights etc. and it didn't add up. I could easily add nav lights, but as he unnecessarily lied about something inconsequential, what else of what he said could I trust.
One boat owner was an extreme case of the above sort of thing. I was very seriously interested in the boat, viewed and inspected it in detail on more than one occasion, including returning with my then partner to get her 'approval' (it was more expensive than any boat I'd previously owned, but I had the money at the time). The owner said he'd studied (and qualified?) to be a marine surveyor, but claimed never to have noticed the distinct kink in the backstay, plus the same for some other not-major-but-obviously-needs-sorting issue I can't remember but had noticed and asked him about; he had some vague and unconvincing tale about how some obvious minor damage had been caused by someone else, but I later found he'd previously told a completely different and very plausible tale of how he'd caused it himself on a very well known sailing forum (no names, no pack drill! ); on the same or another forum I found he'd asked for advice on a potentially serious structural problem he'd previously had and then subsequently fixed relatively simply, but he hadn't mentioned that to me (if he had just said 'I had this problem and fixed it by doing that' I would have been quite happy, subject to having a quick look at the repair); he was an experienced sailor (very experienced according to him) but claimed he couldn't really say how well this boat sailed as he'd only daysailed it in good weather, motoring out of the harbour then reaching back and forth - completely unbelievable to me that an experienced sailor wouldn't have been curious about and explored his (then) new boat's performance to some degree, even had he not also told me separately of the long-distance delivery he'd made of the same boat! (I assumed his avoidance meant the sail performance was poor, but have since learnt it is rather better than I'd assumed, so that lie backfired!) So I didn't trust him any further than I could throw him, but was somehow still keen on that boat, and wanted a brief sail and motor up and down the river (the boat was afloat) to check the motor & gearbox worked OK and the sailing performance wasn't even worse than I'd assumed, before making an offer and coughing up for it to be lifted for a professional survey. He readily agreed to the test sail/motor, but kept delaying fixing a date for it. I'd then seen through the window some small engine parts in packets lying about, and he said was having the yard sort (make some mod?) to improve the 'well known issue' that make/model of engine had with starting in cold weather, but despite a thorough search of the internet I could find no mentions of cold-starting problems with that model engine. He never did get back to me again with the date for that test sail! I assume he had some major engine problem. I bought a very similar boat a few months later. His boat remained for sale for a long time, at one point parked ashore immediately next to my old boat!
There is a difference between cars and boats in that car salesmen are traditionally just behind estate agents in terms of unreliability, whereas boat-owners have taken part in a sporting activity, in which at least some trace of Corinthian values or sticking to the rules might be expected, if sometimes unjustifiably.From your experience do people selling their cars always tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth
The answer to that question is the same for boat owners