Colin_S
New member
Yesterday, I had a phone call, out of the blue, offering me a slot as a crew member for some 'round the cans' racing over the next 4 weekends. This call came about as a result of a notice put up on the board in a local yacht club.
Today I had a run down to meet the skipper and have a look round the boat. This is where my dilemma begins.
After a brief introduction I was invited to indulge in a bottom cleaning exercise to which I duly agreed and joined in with great enthusiasm. Being somewhat of a novice to the boating scene, I wonder if I was taken advantage of or if this is a fairly acceptable practice and could do with a little help and advice. Do you think that.....
a) I should be offended?
b) I should be flattered at being invited to take part in such an intimate event on our first 'date'?
c) I should be disappointed at not having the favour returned?
d) Something else - your advice please.
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Today I had a run down to meet the skipper and have a look round the boat. This is where my dilemma begins.
After a brief introduction I was invited to indulge in a bottom cleaning exercise to which I duly agreed and joined in with great enthusiasm. Being somewhat of a novice to the boating scene, I wonder if I was taken advantage of or if this is a fairly acceptable practice and could do with a little help and advice. Do you think that.....
a) I should be offended?
b) I should be flattered at being invited to take part in such an intimate event on our first 'date'?
c) I should be disappointed at not having the favour returned?
d) Something else - your advice please.
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