V1701
Well-Known Member
It's a difficult one & a lot depends on whether you have dependants/spouse or not. If you don't you have an awful lot of flexibility. The trick is getting yourself into a position where you are happy with your lot, even if that's just for the time being. I think we are too fixated with the idea of careers and doing something for a long time, it suits some but not all and we are also too concerned with what other people think about who we are and what we do, in fact we are pretty much defined by a lot of others by what we do to earn money, which is ridiculous.
At just past 40 I sold my house and went to South America to travel and do voluntary work, ended up learning to dive, worked for a while as a dive guide, then travelled (and dived) my way up through Central America. When I got to Mexico (no desire to enter the US!) I went to the Philippines, did a dive instructor course and taught in Thailand for a while. Now I'm back in the UK, live on my boat (could this be an option for you?) and work 3 days a week as a hospital porter. I also happen to have a masters degree so am working well below my "potential" but for now it suits me, doing something I consider to be worth something more than generating more cash for shareholders pockets, e.g. and there are still loads of options open to me, I could retrain and have another "career", go back to the work I did before, go travelling again, go to the Med or the Caribbean or beyond with my boat when I have the skills (still a relative beginner with my sailing
). There are those that say I don't live in the real world or it's alright for me as I'm only responsible for myself, okay partly true but too many people are slaves to their job and their mortgage, etc. and I do not want that, sounds like you don't either, or at least you'd like a break from it. Explore as many ideas as you can and try different things until you find what's right for you for now. Don't worry too much about the future and good luck...
At just past 40 I sold my house and went to South America to travel and do voluntary work, ended up learning to dive, worked for a while as a dive guide, then travelled (and dived) my way up through Central America. When I got to Mexico (no desire to enter the US!) I went to the Philippines, did a dive instructor course and taught in Thailand for a while. Now I'm back in the UK, live on my boat (could this be an option for you?) and work 3 days a week as a hospital porter. I also happen to have a masters degree so am working well below my "potential" but for now it suits me, doing something I consider to be worth something more than generating more cash for shareholders pockets, e.g. and there are still loads of options open to me, I could retrain and have another "career", go back to the work I did before, go travelling again, go to the Med or the Caribbean or beyond with my boat when I have the skills (still a relative beginner with my sailing