Jodles123
Active Member
Hi all,
Sorry I haven't posted in here in a while, but thanks to the amazing advice I received on here a few months back about where to take the kids on the Solent, we've spent most of our time out on our boat!!!
So here's my situation, and I would REALLY appreciate some advice as hubby and I don't agree.....
We were brand new to boating last Autumn and bought a 21 ft San Boat, with a small but comfortable cuddy, nothing in it but a bed and a loo under the bed, so we could do the odd overnighter if we wanted to. We have two small kids (5 and 6) so weren't sure how they would take to it (or me for that matter). Let's just say we got the bug BIG time and are now out nearly every weekend!
But having just got back from the long weekend on the Isle of Wight, we've realised that it's not so easy doing more than 1 night onboard, with 4 people living out of carrier bags, all sharing one bed and not having a separate loo!
So although we adore our first boat and will be gutted to see her go, we are starting to look around...
The next step up would be something like a Maxum 2400 - basically what we have, but with the additional aft berth, and separate heads.
Then yesterday we popped over to a local boatyard to have get a feel for this kind of thing, and ended up viewing two much bigger boats - a Sea Ray 290 and a Bayliner 2855. Both, of course, are absolutely fantastic....much bigger (6 berth), do absolutely everything we need, and I doubt we'd ever need to upgrade again (famous last words, I know). Having seen these, I'm just concerned that we'd very quickly outgrow something like a 24 ft Maxum and end up changing again very soon.
Hubby is adamant we DON'T need anything this big, and we wouldn't be able to cope anyway. Obviously there is more money involved in terms of petrol, berthing, etc. - and we'd lose the fantastic berth we waited 6 months for, whereas we could fit a 24 footer on it and have no need to change. He's also concerned about whether we can cope physically - the kids are far too young to get involved in ropes, etc. and at the moment I spend a lot of time pulling the boat alongside manually. Not sure I could do that with one of these big girls.
Any thoughts? Am I getting ahead of myself and this is something we should be looking at in a few years? Or is it better to bite the bullet now, and get some fantastic holidays out of a fantastic boat while the kids are still little? The boats we've been looking at are both 20 years old but very well maintained, so they've done the majority of their depreciation and money wise there's a difference of about 6-7K.
I would HUGELY appreciate some advice - especially from those who've cruised with small children!!
Jodles x
Sorry I haven't posted in here in a while, but thanks to the amazing advice I received on here a few months back about where to take the kids on the Solent, we've spent most of our time out on our boat!!!
So here's my situation, and I would REALLY appreciate some advice as hubby and I don't agree.....
We were brand new to boating last Autumn and bought a 21 ft San Boat, with a small but comfortable cuddy, nothing in it but a bed and a loo under the bed, so we could do the odd overnighter if we wanted to. We have two small kids (5 and 6) so weren't sure how they would take to it (or me for that matter). Let's just say we got the bug BIG time and are now out nearly every weekend!
But having just got back from the long weekend on the Isle of Wight, we've realised that it's not so easy doing more than 1 night onboard, with 4 people living out of carrier bags, all sharing one bed and not having a separate loo!
So although we adore our first boat and will be gutted to see her go, we are starting to look around...
The next step up would be something like a Maxum 2400 - basically what we have, but with the additional aft berth, and separate heads.
Then yesterday we popped over to a local boatyard to have get a feel for this kind of thing, and ended up viewing two much bigger boats - a Sea Ray 290 and a Bayliner 2855. Both, of course, are absolutely fantastic....much bigger (6 berth), do absolutely everything we need, and I doubt we'd ever need to upgrade again (famous last words, I know). Having seen these, I'm just concerned that we'd very quickly outgrow something like a 24 ft Maxum and end up changing again very soon.
Hubby is adamant we DON'T need anything this big, and we wouldn't be able to cope anyway. Obviously there is more money involved in terms of petrol, berthing, etc. - and we'd lose the fantastic berth we waited 6 months for, whereas we could fit a 24 footer on it and have no need to change. He's also concerned about whether we can cope physically - the kids are far too young to get involved in ropes, etc. and at the moment I spend a lot of time pulling the boat alongside manually. Not sure I could do that with one of these big girls.
Any thoughts? Am I getting ahead of myself and this is something we should be looking at in a few years? Or is it better to bite the bullet now, and get some fantastic holidays out of a fantastic boat while the kids are still little? The boats we've been looking at are both 20 years old but very well maintained, so they've done the majority of their depreciation and money wise there's a difference of about 6-7K.
I would HUGELY appreciate some advice - especially from those who've cruised with small children!!
Jodles x