solent clown
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Solentclown, I'd recommend your o/h holds loaded sheets like a handled pint glass or horse reins, with the loaded bit coming out past her pinky, rather than index finger. You can effectively make you hand work like a bit of a jammer if you roll your hand forward (imagine you are flying a plane on a short joystick, and push the nose down...the same movement), and if her hand gets pulled into the winch it's just the flesh part that gets hit with no damage done. If you were a very angry person sat at a desk banging your fists on it in frustration, you'd not be banging knuckles or thumbs, you'd do the bit by your pinky. And going back to the horsey thing, those horsey types might need to pull up some rampaging stallion, so that hand grip works there really well too. Ditto sailing my 49er, big loads on racing catgut cheesewire string...loaded bit out past the pinky (or sometimes pinky and wedding ring finger) every time.
And never, ever wrap it!
I will make sure she reads that. Getting her to listen to me is a task sometimes when she gets carried away!