It is indeed profoundly unfortunate, and we also have friends who suffered damage elsewhere in the same storms. Sincere sympathy to all of them.
Unforecast? Maybe. However, perhaps "totally" is a bit strong.
I'm afraid I don't have a record of what the Greek GMDSS area forecast was at the time, although I'd be interested if anyone has a contemporary copy. I imagine it just gave a moderate Beaufort force and 'thunderstorms', possibly 'severe'. Such forecasts shouldn't be relied on to predict wind speeds in thunderstorms with any accuracy and don't even try to: they're never likely to predict F11, or whatever it was, except as a gradient wind.
Grib forecasts, as I recall, showed a large band of rain. Gribs, of course, never directly indicate thundery weather, but it's a prudent bet, particularly at this time of year, than rain and thunder go together. But CAPE values, strongly associated with thundery conditions, were also forecast to be elevated -- certainly high enough to suggest violent thunderstorms. Anyone who sails in Greece is aware, or should be, that thunderstorms are often associated with wild winds from unpredictable directions.
Real-time lightning maps (not forecasts) had earlier shown a very energetic band of lightning over NW Greece, clearly moving south and east. It was this band which caused widespread trouble, later stretching unroken from the Ionian to Evia and onwards. (A smaller hotspot also traversed Kalkidiki.) Anyone who'd seen this depiction of lightning moving their way would have been worried. I know I was. (Fortunately we were well tucked up in Limni and got just one brief blast of about 40knots.)
Much of this might not have been revealed by a quick look at a forecast, and to be constantly aware of it is a counsel of perfection that few of us achieve (especially when the sun's on your face and the breeze is balmy, as it was on the preceding afternoon). And the bottom line is that even that would not have given an inkling of 60+knot winds, because such events are too small, too localised and too ephemeral to be predicted in such detail. But there were signs that something unpleasant was on its way.
Which is why the owners were with the boat prior to the storm hitting!