Rob_Webb
Well-Known Member
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As a yachtie I decided to visit the Motor Boat forum for the first time a couple of days ago to get a taste of the 'other side'. I must admit I have found it rather depressing, having witnessed an almost 'tribal' hatred between motor and sail.
I don't want to comment on the merits of the original case because that has been analysed to death and beyond - I simply want to say I wish people would take a deep breath before launching into some of the posts seen here.
I recently saw a well-respected web-based community totally brought down because of the uneccessarily destructive attitude of the forum members.
Sure, we should all be allowed to air opposing views but it is the manner with which this has been done that causes me offence. Before I submit anything remotely controversial I always use this acid test - would I really be happy to say this face-to-face to someone if I was standing next to him/her in a bar? If not, then it fails the respectability test and shouldn't be posted.
I expect some of you will say that if I am offended by this stuff then I should simply sign off and not come back - and of course, I could easily do that. But would that really have achieved anything?
Rob Webb.
As a yachtie I decided to visit the Motor Boat forum for the first time a couple of days ago to get a taste of the 'other side'. I must admit I have found it rather depressing, having witnessed an almost 'tribal' hatred between motor and sail.
I don't want to comment on the merits of the original case because that has been analysed to death and beyond - I simply want to say I wish people would take a deep breath before launching into some of the posts seen here.
I recently saw a well-respected web-based community totally brought down because of the uneccessarily destructive attitude of the forum members.
Sure, we should all be allowed to air opposing views but it is the manner with which this has been done that causes me offence. Before I submit anything remotely controversial I always use this acid test - would I really be happy to say this face-to-face to someone if I was standing next to him/her in a bar? If not, then it fails the respectability test and shouldn't be posted.
I expect some of you will say that if I am offended by this stuff then I should simply sign off and not come back - and of course, I could easily do that. But would that really have achieved anything?
Rob Webb.