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Twister_Ken

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lifted with permission from my local website

If you lived as a child in the 40's, 50's, 60's or 70's, looking back, it's hard to believe that we have lived as long as we have...

As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags. Our cots were covered with bright coloured lead-based paint. We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors, or cupboards, and when we rode our bikes we had no helmets. We drank water from puddles and not from bottles. Horrors. We would spend hours building go-carts* out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times we learned to solve the problem by rolling off the cart before it crashed.

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on. No one was able to reach us all day. No mobile phones. Unthinkable.

We got cut and broke bones and broke teeth, and there were no lawsuits from these accidents. They were accidents. No one was to blame, but us. Remember accidents?

We had fights and punched each other and got black and blue and learned to get over it. We ate sugary sweets, bread and butter, and drank cordial, but we were never overweight...we were always outside playing. We shared one drink with four friends, from one bottle and no one died from this.

We did not have Play stations, Nintendo 64, X-Boxes, video games, 250 satellite channels on TV, DVD movies, surround sound, personal mobile phones, Personal Computers, Internet chat rooms ... we had friends. We went outside and found them. We rode bikes or walked to a friend's home and knocked on the door, or rung the bell, or just walked in and talked to them. Imagine such a thing. Without asking a parent! By ourselves! Out there in the cold cruel world! Without a guardian - how did we do it?

We made up games with sticks and tennis balls, and ate worms, and although we were told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes, nor did the worms live inside us forever.

For football we had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't, had to learn to deal with disappointment.....

Some students weren't as smart as others and failed exams so they were held back a year. Tests were not adjusted for any reason.

Our actions were our own. Consequences were expected. No one to hide behind.The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke a law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law - imagine that!

This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers and problem solvers and inventors, ever. The past 50 years has been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned how to deal with it all.

And if you're one of that generation, congratulations on surviving!

*In my case we also built rafts out of bits of wood and oil cans and baler twine, from which we would happily fish all day (with Woolworths fishing rods) on the local dykes and clay pits.
 

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and we played on climbing frames that were not padded and did not have rubber matting underneath

Ok brain let's just do this and I can get back to killing you with beer.
 

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Re: Stolen cliches

I know it's stolen but it still applies...

It was a woman that drove me to drink. The sad thing is that I've never had the courtesy to thank her.

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Re: So did I - nice one Ken!

Policeman came round on bikes - we had the original 'laughing policeman' Mr Childs his name was. Big fat policeman, his helmet sat on his head like a pimp on a pigs bum. Alway smiling lovely man.
Got in to trouble, if I told me parents I would get a bigger hidding. (I sound like one of Paul Whitehouse charaters - Ah! football, two jumper as goal posts......)
In those days we could get away with eating faty and sweet things, our 'play' was outside running around burning it off, not sitting inside in front of a 'box'.
(Bah! Can't get the hang of computers, X boxes, mobile phones,)
 

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Re: So did I - nice one Ken!

<<Ah! football, two jumper as goal posts>> You're obviously a rich kid. We used one jumper and my little sister. 'Just sit there and don't move'. Of course, that was before women's lib.
 

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Re: Jumpers?

bloody luxury
i spose next you'll be sayin you 'ad a football
we just had a lump of concrete and no shoes

and we 'ad to send me little sister away as she was too many for't food on'table

Ok brain let's just do this and I can get back to killing you with beer.
 

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Sheer bloody luxury

What an excellent post.

Eeeee - when I were t' lad we 'ad catties. Me Dad made t' catty out o' metal bar an' quarter inch rubber, wi t' leather pouch - get t' bloody thumb in t' way o' tha'.

O' course, we didn't call 'em ponsy "go carts". No, t'us they were t' barrows.

I actually remember followin' t'feller we thought were t' perv on t' Plumstead Common!

Remeber t' "superballs". Rock 'ard and kept bouncin' for t' year on t' their own. Get one o' them in yer eye and t' yer knew it!

Well done Ken! T' list goes on and t' on.

Magic

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Re: Sheer bloody luxury

And themes like politically correct, affirmative action, equal opportunity and New Labour hadn't reared their PC heads

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Re: Sheer bloody luxury

Yea and remember the"lemonade crystals" bought from the big jars and weighed out in a paper bag that went all soggy cos you licked your finger and dipped it in . Stained yer fingers a treat , looked like you smoked 60 a day!! and why o why did the liquorice straw supplied with those sherbert dips always get eaten before sherbert was gone!! And the double chewing gum every 4th turn of the dispenser machine! ---------Bloody hell where have the years gone???

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Re: I did\'nt

When I was young and in my prime,
I had not thought nor care,
I took delight in mirth and wine,
And rov'd from fair to fair,
I took delight in jovial life
Till fate on me did frown,
Until alas, I took a wife,
And the world turned upside-down.

I know just how you feel ! !

Jim
 
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