AndrewB
Well-known member
How to politely say \'No Thanks\'?
My heart sinks when, as we approach a pontoon berth, some kind stranger suddenly pops up and offers to take our lines. If they are inexperienced, I know they won't realise how much heavier our yacht is than it looks. I worry about the implications of their being dragged into the water, or crushed as they attempt to check way by pushing on the bow. Both have nearly happened on several occasions.
We have a well-worked out routine for the two of us, which will have been finalised on our approach run according to the conditions. It takes concentration, not the best time for explanations or sudden changes of plan.
But the taking of lines is a standard ritual greeting among yachties, and just saying "No thanks, please stand clear" is easily interpreted as a snub.
Any suggestions?
My heart sinks when, as we approach a pontoon berth, some kind stranger suddenly pops up and offers to take our lines. If they are inexperienced, I know they won't realise how much heavier our yacht is than it looks. I worry about the implications of their being dragged into the water, or crushed as they attempt to check way by pushing on the bow. Both have nearly happened on several occasions.
We have a well-worked out routine for the two of us, which will have been finalised on our approach run according to the conditions. It takes concentration, not the best time for explanations or sudden changes of plan.
But the taking of lines is a standard ritual greeting among yachties, and just saying "No thanks, please stand clear" is easily interpreted as a snub.
Any suggestions?