Tranona
Well-Known Member
If someone doesn't want to be rescued then we can give advice, but can't force anyone to do anything.
The exception is when they are intent on suicide or other self-harm, which my particular lifeboat gets called to quite often. In that case we can grab/restrain them, or do whatever is reasonably necessary, on the basis that they are not in a position mentally to make rational decisions.
There is a fine line between your two scenarios and if you followed the discussions on the video it was not clear initially which side of that dividing line the crew were on, but as it developed it became more clear - at least from the point of view of the crew.
Whatever the intended objective of the sailor it was clear that even survival was unlikely given his physical condition, never mind his mental state. So the choice became binary - leave him to die or persuade him to abandon his boat.