robmurray
Member
Unfortunately I have had to divorce my crew / wife. It has all turned rather sour and she is trying to insist that, whenever I have our daughters (5 and 7) on board, I have to have another RYA Day Skipper on board in case I become incapacitated. The Yacht is a Sweden Yacht 45 with full safety kit. I am very experienced with over 20k miles as skipper, YachtMaster, etc. The worst injury I have had in 24 years is a cut toe. My new crew / partner is not a Day Skipper but has helmed commercial dive boats many times. She could easily get the boat to safety.
I am arguing that this is totally un-necessary and will effectively stop me from sailing with my daughters (who love it) because I will have to pay for a second skipper to be on board every weekend and holiday.
Am I being unreasonable? If not are there any useful sources of information that I could use to bolster my case?
Many thanks!
I am arguing that this is totally un-necessary and will effectively stop me from sailing with my daughters (who love it) because I will have to pay for a second skipper to be on board every weekend and holiday.
Am I being unreasonable? If not are there any useful sources of information that I could use to bolster my case?
Many thanks!