fireball
Well-Known Member
Re: \"how else do less experienced gain knowledge?\"
Sailing with Dad - although he doesn't have a financial interest in the boat there is generally no disagreement - a difference of opinion ... well - he taught me so we don't have those either. I trust him completely with the boat as he would me.
Sailing with SWMBO - we do disagree on destination, quite often, probably around 50/50 resolution - I want to sail further, she wants a quieter sail (understandably as I'd sail non stop if I had the chance!), but as an example - our outbound trip in sept - she said Cowes, I said Newtown, we went to Beaulieu ... at the end of the day we both need to enjoy the sailing so we sail as we live the rest of our lives - with compromise to keep the otherone happy...
Do you really need to be dominant? I suppose quite a few are sailing with ppl noticablly less able than the "skipper" so it becomes obvious who is in charge, but if you are happy with anothers decisions do you really have to have one dominant?
If you have a couple of have learnt to sail together and have the same experience - who becomes skipper? Share the responsiblility - it is more relaxing all round
Sailing with Dad - although he doesn't have a financial interest in the boat there is generally no disagreement - a difference of opinion ... well - he taught me so we don't have those either. I trust him completely with the boat as he would me.
Sailing with SWMBO - we do disagree on destination, quite often, probably around 50/50 resolution - I want to sail further, she wants a quieter sail (understandably as I'd sail non stop if I had the chance!), but as an example - our outbound trip in sept - she said Cowes, I said Newtown, we went to Beaulieu ... at the end of the day we both need to enjoy the sailing so we sail as we live the rest of our lives - with compromise to keep the otherone happy...
Do you really need to be dominant? I suppose quite a few are sailing with ppl noticablly less able than the "skipper" so it becomes obvious who is in charge, but if you are happy with anothers decisions do you really have to have one dominant?
If you have a couple of have learnt to sail together and have the same experience - who becomes skipper? Share the responsiblility - it is more relaxing all round