prv
Well-Known Member
You don't have an option for me to pick.
I certainly wouldn't have the idea of salvage in my head when going to help someone.
If I had incurred serious costs or inconvenience, I would hope that most reasonable people would sort that out appropriately, possibly after a gentle nudge if it's clear the need hadn't occurred to them (stressful and distracting situation, after all).
But if in that situation they instead acted in a wilfully ungrateful and obnoxious manner (and you do hear of it happening on rare occasions), then it may be that the thought would cross my mind of taking up what is after all my legal right.
Pete
I certainly wouldn't have the idea of salvage in my head when going to help someone.
If I had incurred serious costs or inconvenience, I would hope that most reasonable people would sort that out appropriately, possibly after a gentle nudge if it's clear the need hadn't occurred to them (stressful and distracting situation, after all).
But if in that situation they instead acted in a wilfully ungrateful and obnoxious manner (and you do hear of it happening on rare occasions), then it may be that the thought would cross my mind of taking up what is after all my legal right.
Pete