oldharry
Well-Known Member
When you get too ill/old to use your boat, where do you draw the line? Come to that, when you get too busy to use it, at what point do you bite the bullet and sell up? Illness particularly, you hope you will get well again until you get to the point where you no longer have the energy to deal with it. Rational thinking goes out of the window by then, specially if cognitive impairment is a factor. Clinging on to the hope of being able to use it again one day may even be one of the best medicines,There is this old boat in our harbour. I don't even know what make, not one I recognise and it's in poor condition. the owner has been ill, it's not been sailed for 2 years, but he keeps paying the harbour dues and crane in / out fees just for the boat to go nowhere getting more and more tatty.
He would have been far better to have sold it, or given it away, as soon as he realised his sailing days are over when someone might have taken it on as a cheap entry to sailing.
The poor chap died recently, now it is left to his relatives to deal with an old unwanted boat that is costing money but there is little chance of even giving it away.
This doesn't make it any easier for the relatives who have to sort it later on though. As my late wife's health deteriorated I had less and less time for sailing. It was a hard call when the Yard Owner (who knew us well) told me he knew someone who might take on my boat, which by then was showing early signs of neglect. The very occasional couple of hours over the top of a tide were a lifeline at that point but I knew too that before long I would not even have time for that.
