Fair point but where I sail we get a phenomenon known as a gust of wind. This comes as a sudden increase in wind and tends to cause rapid heeling. It is possible to have a sail plan that can accomodate gusts without excessive heeling but then one tends to be sailing unacceptably slowly and boring the pants off everyone.
I show trainees how to keep a weather eye open for the gusts ( approaching rain cloud, or "ruffles" on the water) and dump the main when they arrive.
Attention to sail-trim, halyard tension, backstay tension etc., can also help. A good instructor once pointed out to me the disadvantages of sailing a boat "on its ear" and how to prevent it. I just like to pass these things on. Good luck, olewill.