Simondjuk
Well-Known Member
First of all " him" not "they". The culprit was the owner of the boat. The rest of us were guests.
I was off watch. The others were on deck and crowding the cockpit. He was not short of hands.
I do not fraternise with morons. I am very choosy as to who I fraternise with.
Indeed so, but I'm afraid that the air of superiority is rather wasted. It was simply that as I typed on a phone on which it is awkward to scroll back and check, I couldn't recall if you had mentioned your friend's gender, hence I settled for 'they' rather than 'him'.
Despite having such grave doubts in your skippers abilities that you offered to relieve him of command, you elected not to place the assets of your superior knowledge and experience where, evidently, they were required and therefore were not on deck to offer guidance at one of the most challenging stages of the passage. Off watch or not, sufficient hands on deck or not, your lapse in judgement of the situation left you helpless to do anything but rush up on deck in vain when it was already too late.
In your own words, the collision and resultant 'disastrous' damage occurred because your friend 'approached the berth at full tilt and did not put his engine on astern to stop her'. Those are not the actions of any fully witted person in my book but, on the contrary, moronic. Even a child could have foreseen the inevitable outcome.
This is the story as you tell it in your own words, nothing more and nothing less.