I think the simplest thing to do would be to de-rig the 3rd reefing line until it's windy enough to at least be sure of needing the first.
If you have issues with a manoeuvre like hoisting or dropping sails, it might be useful to treat it like a racing manoeuvre like say gybing.
Go out and practice. Bribe a mate to come out with you, then you can step back and see what's actually going wrong and how that can be cured.
Why is your stack pack not catching the reef lines? Can it be made to do so by changing things a little?
Dooes the OP even have a stack pack? If not, would it help?
What is different on boats which don't make an issue of this?
Could the 'cure' of taking the slack out of the reef line be made easier, with say a thinner dyneema rope? Is there chafe or friction you could work on?
Personally I would say the most significant thing in 'tidying up' the process of dropping the main is having a line ready to secure the boom over to the port side (throttle is on starboard side along with main halyard, and therefore the helmsperson).
The other day we had to drop the main in a strong swell.
Engine on, motor high on starboad tack.
Dump halyard, secure boom, then go forwards and pull the main down.
Obvious need the main to drop far enough such that the boom can be lashed without the sail filling.
If needs be, I could pull it down a few feet using the tack line of the first reef, which is led back.
My boat is a small bilge keeler, which rolls some in a swell, so I am cautious going forward of the pram hood.
It's good to secure the boom before doing so.
Boom not moving, reef lines not flailing about.
If you have issues with a manoeuvre like hoisting or dropping sails, it might be useful to treat it like a racing manoeuvre like say gybing.
Go out and practice. Bribe a mate to come out with you, then you can step back and see what's actually going wrong and how that can be cured.
Why is your stack pack not catching the reef lines? Can it be made to do so by changing things a little?
Dooes the OP even have a stack pack? If not, would it help?
What is different on boats which don't make an issue of this?
Could the 'cure' of taking the slack out of the reef line be made easier, with say a thinner dyneema rope? Is there chafe or friction you could work on?
Personally I would say the most significant thing in 'tidying up' the process of dropping the main is having a line ready to secure the boom over to the port side (throttle is on starboard side along with main halyard, and therefore the helmsperson).
The other day we had to drop the main in a strong swell.
Engine on, motor high on starboad tack.
Dump halyard, secure boom, then go forwards and pull the main down.
Obvious need the main to drop far enough such that the boom can be lashed without the sail filling.
If needs be, I could pull it down a few feet using the tack line of the first reef, which is led back.
My boat is a small bilge keeler, which rolls some in a swell, so I am cautious going forward of the pram hood.
It's good to secure the boom before doing so.
Boom not moving, reef lines not flailing about.