StugeronSteve
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The sea breeze kicked in on Saturday afternoon and we enjoyed a short, but brisk, Solent sail.
Heading south on a starboard tack, under full main and genny, we were on a converging course with a pair of yachts heading west on a port tack. The furthest away was clearly going to pass ahead and was of no concern, however, the nearer of the two was on a direct collision course. We stood on until it was apparent that the helm had not seen us and avoiding action was necessary. I luffed up, spilled wind and returned their embarrassed wave with a friendly smile.
A little later and still on the same leg a similar situation arose, this time I was sure I had made eye contact with the helm and felt confident in standing on. Instead of bearing away he too stood on. As I lost sight of the helm behind his genoa I was unsure of his intentions, if we both held our course we would collide, if I tacked or luffed he might bear away and hit us. I held course and gave a clear and polite hail to emphasize my presence and intention. He passed within a metre or two of our transom clearly offended and upset that I had doubted his competence.
To my mind his actions were dangerous, the situation upset my solitary crewman and had me questioning my judgement, whilst seemingly caught between a rock and a hard place. I feel that such close quarters sailing (other than between two members of a racing fleet) creates a pointless risk and is totally irresponsible.
This all took place mid Solent in open water, I have no idea whether he was trying to bully me into submission, or felt that I should have had absolute confidence in his ability and intentions. Am I a wuss, or right in being concerned by this sort of behaviour?
<hr width=100% size=1>God only made so many perfect heads. The rest got covered in hair.
Heading south on a starboard tack, under full main and genny, we were on a converging course with a pair of yachts heading west on a port tack. The furthest away was clearly going to pass ahead and was of no concern, however, the nearer of the two was on a direct collision course. We stood on until it was apparent that the helm had not seen us and avoiding action was necessary. I luffed up, spilled wind and returned their embarrassed wave with a friendly smile.
A little later and still on the same leg a similar situation arose, this time I was sure I had made eye contact with the helm and felt confident in standing on. Instead of bearing away he too stood on. As I lost sight of the helm behind his genoa I was unsure of his intentions, if we both held our course we would collide, if I tacked or luffed he might bear away and hit us. I held course and gave a clear and polite hail to emphasize my presence and intention. He passed within a metre or two of our transom clearly offended and upset that I had doubted his competence.
To my mind his actions were dangerous, the situation upset my solitary crewman and had me questioning my judgement, whilst seemingly caught between a rock and a hard place. I feel that such close quarters sailing (other than between two members of a racing fleet) creates a pointless risk and is totally irresponsible.
This all took place mid Solent in open water, I have no idea whether he was trying to bully me into submission, or felt that I should have had absolute confidence in his ability and intentions. Am I a wuss, or right in being concerned by this sort of behaviour?
<hr width=100% size=1>God only made so many perfect heads. The rest got covered in hair.