Rocksteadee
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Don’t teach the wife. Unless it is a very rare relationship where she will let you.
Don’t just count to 10, count to 20
Don’t just count to 10, count to 20
So you both failed but he gave you both a passMy wife and I did the Day Skipper Practical together and in the assessment on the last day, the teacher told me that I was good on the helm, but terrible at deck work. He said that my wife was the exact opposite - her rope work and sail management was excellent, but she could not steer the boat. He passed us both on the condition that we reversed roles for a few months!
Brilliant idea. Anyone care to lend me a boat to practice on?To improve your teaching it is worth finding another person (defo not your wife) to instruct. Blindfold them and give them instructions to come alongside etc. That will show you how clear and calm you have to be. Once you're happy with doing this in a variety of situations then you'll be able to let your wife helm in close quarters calmly too. Your confidence will probably transfer to her.
Brilliant idea. Anyone care to lend me a boat to practice on?