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Some of the most challenging skippering from a man management point of view that I've ever done was aged 23, as a relatively newly qualified YM skippering corporate charters. When the clients were all novices it was fine, as even when they were old enough to be my grandfather they didn't question my judgement.
And the very well qualified/experienced crew were also fine in the main. They tended to understand that a boat can only have one skipper, though a lot of them would throw a few test questions my way, and almost all would ask if I was a zero to hero YM. I quickly learnt that these types either wanted nothing to do with running the boat, and wanted the others to experience sailing, or liked being asked to manage a couple of novices when tacking etc so I could concentrate on helping the guy on the helm.
But the absolute worst were the non boat owning day skipper qualified type. Almost without fail I'd get decisions questioned by this group, especially when they were considerably older than me, and almost all would hold forth to the non sailors in the group about all subjects nautical, frequently getting quite a lot wrong. It was a chap like this who was the only person I ever had to lay down the law to whilst I was corporate skippering, as he simply kept telling the crew to ignore me and do everything differently. "We didn't do it like that on my day skipper, we did it like this.."
The worst weekend I've ever spent on a boat though was a weekend where a bunch of skippers borrowed a boat and went for a jolly. There was agreement over almost nothing, and arguments about almost everything. The chap who'd organised the weekend thought he was the skipper, the chap with the YMI ticket thought he was, the chap who was the most senior in the company thought he was and the rest of us finished the weekend barely on speaking terms. Normal relationships were resumed once we were all back on different boats, but fun it was not.
And the very well qualified/experienced crew were also fine in the main. They tended to understand that a boat can only have one skipper, though a lot of them would throw a few test questions my way, and almost all would ask if I was a zero to hero YM. I quickly learnt that these types either wanted nothing to do with running the boat, and wanted the others to experience sailing, or liked being asked to manage a couple of novices when tacking etc so I could concentrate on helping the guy on the helm.
But the absolute worst were the non boat owning day skipper qualified type. Almost without fail I'd get decisions questioned by this group, especially when they were considerably older than me, and almost all would hold forth to the non sailors in the group about all subjects nautical, frequently getting quite a lot wrong. It was a chap like this who was the only person I ever had to lay down the law to whilst I was corporate skippering, as he simply kept telling the crew to ignore me and do everything differently. "We didn't do it like that on my day skipper, we did it like this.."
The worst weekend I've ever spent on a boat though was a weekend where a bunch of skippers borrowed a boat and went for a jolly. There was agreement over almost nothing, and arguments about almost everything. The chap who'd organised the weekend thought he was the skipper, the chap with the YMI ticket thought he was, the chap who was the most senior in the company thought he was and the rest of us finished the weekend barely on speaking terms. Normal relationships were resumed once we were all back on different boats, but fun it was not.