Finding a Sailing Girlfriend via a Newspaper Ad

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The current issue of Yachting Monthly features an article about a gentleman named Roy Starkey who built his own ferrocement sailboat during the 1970s and set off around the world with his girlfriend and very little money. While in Tanzania, his girlfriend tied a weight to herself and jumped overboard. After an appropriate mourning period, Roy placed an ad for a new girlfriend/sailing mate. This approach seems to have worked for him. He has spent the last several decades wandering about the world on his boat with a string of girlfriends and very little money.

In his ad, Roy stated that the applicant must:

- be a girl
- have a non-South African passport (because Brazil and many Caribbean islands refuse entry to South Africans)
- be less than 5ft 4in (because the spare bunk is a bit short)
- have no sailing experience (I don't need to be told how to run the boat)
- have some money, including enough for a flight home (otherwise if push came to shove I'd have to pay for it)

I wouldn't expect this approach to work today. I would think that the typical young lady of today would prefer to buy her own sailboat and be her own captain. Just in case, I've passed the article along to my young cousin who just bought a Dufour Arpege and has dreams of voyaging about the world.
 
..... I wouldn't expect this approach to work today. I would think that the typical young lady of today would prefer to buy her own sailboat and be her own captain. ....

Smithfield Virgina! You obviously don't know your average British bint, they are pretty much up for anything if it involves sun, sea and sex.
 
... While in Tanzania, his girlfriend tied a weight to herself and jumped overboard. After an appropriate mourning period, Roy placed an ad for a new girlfriend/sailing mate. This approach seems to have worked for him. He has spent the last several decades wandering about the world on his boat with a string of girlfriends and very little money.

Might be as well to limit candidates to those who are unlikely to be able to tie a reliable knot, despite the handicap that would be on board. But convincing the authorities of a suicide sounds tricky.

Years ago the predecessors of Sunsail, YCA and Island Sailing, both offered lists of contact details of candidate crew members for singletons wishing to go on flotilla. Unlike more recent "pot luck" schemes it was entirely up to the singletons to arrange their own foursomes to fill a boat. But I met many interesting people that way, and even sailed with some of them more than once...

Mike.
 
There are many young ladies who have acquired their own boats and been their own captains. Tania Aeibi, Ellen MacArthur, Laura Dekker, and Liz Clark come to mind. Liz Clark is presently voyaging about the Pacific on a Cal 40 and seeking out the best spots for surfing. http://swellvoyage.com/about/about-liz/

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My first thought on reading the thread title was - Cyclotouriste. For those who don't remember, he was a guy who advertised on a cycling website for a female touring companion. A couple of posters gently ribbed him and he went apeshit - to put it mildly. The thread went viral.
 
My first thought on reading the thread title was - Cyclotouriste. For those who don't remember, he was a guy who advertised on a cycling website for a female touring companion. A couple of posters gently ribbed him and he went apeshit - to put it mildly. The thread went viral.

Oh thank you for that .. I just had to go look it up and have sent the last 10 minutes laughing out loud.. cheers SnowLeopard, made my day.. :D

Enough to make you laugh here.. ==>
http://webcache.googleusercontent.c...ca.se/Cyclotouriste+&cd=8&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=uk
 
Oh thank you for that .. I just had to go look it up and have sent the last 10 minutes laughing out loud.. cheers SnowLeopard, made my day.. :D

Enough to make you laugh here.. ==>
http://webcache.googleusercontent.c...ca.se/Cyclotouriste+&cd=8&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=uk

I'd never heard of it either. There's also a scotsman article: http://www.scotsman.com/future-scotland/tech/lazy-guide-to-net-culture-cyclotouriste-1-465522

It's not half as crazy as some of the stuff you get on US fundamentalist religious forums though. It's just more sweary!
 
My first thought on reading the thread title was - Cyclotouriste. For those who don't remember, he was a guy who advertised on a cycling website for a female touring companion. A couple of posters gently ribbed him and he went apeshit - to put it mildly. The thread went viral.

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'Kin Web 'kin nanny!

It also tries to shut out social media, but misses these forums, fortunately.

Oh well, one for when I get home,
 
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