Twister_Ken
Well-known member
Lose/lose situation
Although the points raised in response to Stingo's post are all fine and dandy, this is an uncomfortable basic question which he poses, and I would rather it hadn't been asked.
It puts us in a binary situation. Yes, go. No, stay. If we say 'yes', and something dreadful happens we will feel we share some or all of the blame. If we say 'no', we are responsible for shattering Stingo's dream.
No matter what we say, and how many caveats we add to our advice we, and Stingo, are likely to end up as losers.
So if anyone else is contemplating something similar, please don't ask us the basic "Should I, shouldn't I?" question.
Although the points raised in response to Stingo's post are all fine and dandy, this is an uncomfortable basic question which he poses, and I would rather it hadn't been asked.
It puts us in a binary situation. Yes, go. No, stay. If we say 'yes', and something dreadful happens we will feel we share some or all of the blame. If we say 'no', we are responsible for shattering Stingo's dream.
No matter what we say, and how many caveats we add to our advice we, and Stingo, are likely to end up as losers.
So if anyone else is contemplating something similar, please don't ask us the basic "Should I, shouldn't I?" question.