Sybarite
Well-Known Member
That's what I meant sorry...
I think you can also say j'écoute but there will be somebody correcting me shortly ,I'm sure.
You can. Same thing for the telephone but it's not very polite. "Je vous écoute" is better but a simple "Allo. Bonjour Monsieur/Madame" is best.
One also needs to remember that the French are more formal than we are and so in aswering eg "Oui" or "Non" always remember to add the "Monsieur" or "Madame". Be careful with the Mademoiselle because convention says that when a lady has attained her "Majorité" she should also be addressed as "Madame" even if she is not married. I made that fatal mistake early on with a senior spinster lawyer and got an earful.
Almost French words have roughly a similar stress on each syllable. English people often wrongly stress the final one.
Remember also to use the "vous" form of the verb ("vouvoyer") . You can get away with "tu" ("tutoyer") sometimes but you need a bit of experience to know when it is acceptable - which it often is exceptionally in the sailing context. But it is safer and more respectful to use the "vous" form and it makes a better impression. In sailing you would pass quickly to first name terms but on a more formal occasion, never unless invited to.
If you have a business lunch, do not speak business until near the end of the meal ("entre la poire et le fromage"). Before then, they will be sounding out your general knowledge and culture.
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