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The Future Is Not Preordained Except By SWMBO
I sailed professionally in the 80s / early 90s and we didn't wear life jackets except for fog, in the dinghy, non swimmers, that sort of thing; one hand for the boat. Self inflating lifejackets were not the norm by far.
This year I came back to sailing seriously again with my family (SWMBO + 2 kids 11 and 9). At first the wearing of the life jacket with crotch strops was unfamiliar and I didn't want to do it, I also wanted my children to have sea legs and respect for a boat at sea.
SWMBO made it quite clear that they would be worn by the kids and herself. She had no intention of picking me up if I fell overboard, so I had better wear one as well.
This year I have learnt to live with the thing (lifejacket not SWMBO) and I am beginning to feel exposed if I don't have it on. I buy into the RNLI campaign and I am beginning to rationalise the contradiction that I suspect many sailors might practice - put the effort into keeping the boat sound but less effort to keep me sound!
Finally, I got this far in life under my own steam and the future is bright and cheery, so there is no point leaving everything in the lap of fate - I would rather float and drown, than sink and drown, for all sorts of reasons.
I sailed professionally in the 80s / early 90s and we didn't wear life jackets except for fog, in the dinghy, non swimmers, that sort of thing; one hand for the boat. Self inflating lifejackets were not the norm by far.
This year I came back to sailing seriously again with my family (SWMBO + 2 kids 11 and 9). At first the wearing of the life jacket with crotch strops was unfamiliar and I didn't want to do it, I also wanted my children to have sea legs and respect for a boat at sea.
SWMBO made it quite clear that they would be worn by the kids and herself. She had no intention of picking me up if I fell overboard, so I had better wear one as well.
This year I have learnt to live with the thing (lifejacket not SWMBO) and I am beginning to feel exposed if I don't have it on. I buy into the RNLI campaign and I am beginning to rationalise the contradiction that I suspect many sailors might practice - put the effort into keeping the boat sound but less effort to keep me sound!
Finally, I got this far in life under my own steam and the future is bright and cheery, so there is no point leaving everything in the lap of fate - I would rather float and drown, than sink and drown, for all sorts of reasons.
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