Why do you go to sea?

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I became interested in boats and boating through my passion for diving, initially I went out on charter boats but pretty soon got fed up of having no real say as to when and where we went and dived. It was then that I decided that the only way to have some control was to have my own boat.

It was the best decision I ever made (and the most expensive!), now have a group of like minded friends who are happy doing the same sort of diving as me and can get out pretty much anytime. Last weekend caught 3 lobsters in a 30 minute dive, each of them almost 4lbs plus a few scallops. Previous weekend we had a lobster and scallop lunch on board, what can be better than eating what you've just caught only minutes after it's been pulled up from the sea bed.

The point of this post is that I recently had a fairly serious diving incident, the first in 20 years of diving, which now curtails my enjoyment of my hobby (hopefully only on a temporary basis) and it really got me thinking what I would do if I was unable to dive again, would it be good enough just to go out and come back again without the sense of achievement and enjoyment I get from diving. Sitting on the boat watching others do what I desperately want to do myself is frustrating and I think I would soon become bored with motoring off to the same ports doing the same old things time and again.

Once the weather improves, if it ever does, then we plan to go across the channel and try some new places around St Malo, now that should be interesting, and hopefully hot! But I still ask myself would I bother to keep a boat in this country if I didn't have a real reason to use it. I look at 90% of the motorboats down my way that leave port maybe once or twice a year, have a quick spin out, either get bored or frightened and then quickly retreat to the shoreside facilities never to be seen again. What a waste. I suppose for many people a boat is a lifestyle statement, seems to be those that talk the loudest do the least. Those sort of people aren't interested in the sea. Fortunately most peeps on this forum are in the 10% who do use their boats.

So back to the point, what do you get from going out in your boat. Is it just the pleasure of being away from the everyday pressures of work etc or is there more to it, the sense of adventure and achievement when arriving at new places.

On a lighthearted note, I'm a financial adviser and after my diving incident (I got a bend) my diving buddy now takes great pleasure in introducing me to all his friends as "meet John, he's my bent financial adviser!" <G>
 

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Maybe it will improve your taste buds to actually be able to enjoy good beer. In all seriousness I am sorry to hear you had a mishap bt to answer your question.

I live on an Island which doesnt have a lot to do and is expensive to get off so we use our boat for travel and enjoyment. Water skiing swimming snorkeling fishing socialising as lots of other freinds have boatsa and the general escape away from the island and everything else. As I leave St. Peter Port harbour and pin the throttle I look back and think to myself....work stress mortgage and all the other problems are behind me and it is enough to go out for the day wekend or whatever so when I get back I think about tackling them with a refreshed mind and soul.

THAT IS WHY I AM SO STRESSED RECENTLY AS MY BOAT IS NOT IN THE WATER!!!!!!

Also look at all the islands in the area to visit (apart from Jersey) and you can be in France Alderney or that other place in underan hour or Sark in 20mins or Herm in 8 mins living here youd be mad not to have a boat.

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I just want my boat back in the water ;-(
 

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Channel Islands

I would be hard pressed to think of anywhere better to keep a boat, as you say, so much choice and I guess generally better weather than back here.

Any more news on your engine? One consolation for us both is that if we have to miss all or part of a season, this is the one to choose!!
 

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Re: Channel Islands

Yes it hasnt been a good one except that every time I planned to got to Lezardrieux the weather has been perfect for those times that i had booked in my calendar. Also last Saturdy I could have been in Dielette for the day nd some of the evenings I could have been in Herm for dinner.

I boat 360 days a year so although this is the best time of year, or should be, so i can swim and go further afield and do things in better weather, a bit of dour weather doesnt stop me from going out even if it just to Herm and Sark for the day its better than nought. The worst thing is to sit there looking at all the boats piling out on a lat calm day, its enough to make you sick!

I cant even go and sit on my boat at lunchtime on a nice day and soak up the sun and atmosphere!

Dom


I just want my boat back in the water ;-(
 

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I just love being by / in / on / beside / water.

Having baoted as a kid for years in Poole (we never went that far - my Mum was scared of the boat !!!)
But I spent hours bombing around in the dingy complete with Seagull Silver Century engine (1.5hp !!!!)

Hence Kelisha is really an excuse to on the water. I'm not mad about going on massive trips but having a potter around, exploring and generally using her as a "Holiday" home - (pun intended !!)

I could easily live on a boat. Just love sitting watching the world go past. Really relaxing.

Still tomorrow I am renting a 7.5 tonne lorry and I'm going to bring Kelisha back from Milford Haven and put her on my drive for some TLC. Then get a BSC done and then pop her into the Severn or Avon. Plus the occasional trip to the coast for long weekends !! I may even take her and meet up with some of the forum members !!!!

Then I wanna take RYA course on Powerboating. Esp handling with only a single engine - much more skill required (IMHO) than twins.

I just love water..

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A bent financial adviser, eh? I know a few of them. Sounds like a good qualification to be boss of Enron or Worldcom!

Like many others, I just like being out on the water. With a smallish boat, don’t go far, but it’s great to go to a nice bay, Lulworth, Alum Bay or somewhere like that, drop the hook and just lay back and soak up the sun. Yeah, well, not this year.

Got to admire you, diving, get the absolute most out of being on the water. Fresh lobster sounds great. Trouble is, my family are vegetarian, I’m not. The other day my daughter saw lobsters in a tank, complete with banded claws, ‘Dad, dad, please can you buy me those lobsters’. What for, you’re a veggie. The reply came, ‘I want to take the bands off their claws, and put ‘em back in the sea!’

Oh yeah, great at 15 quid a time. Anyway, hope you recover fully, soon, a ‘bend’, that’s coming up too quick, innit?


Old Chinese proverb 'Man who sail boat into rice field, soon get into paddy'
 

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Like most humans I am transfixed by large expanses of water. Rivers, lakes, and the sea can hold my gaze for hours and hours on end. Even those who would never step on a boat are attracted in this way, as shown by the prices of riverside housing, the ubiquity of seaside promenades, and the popularity of beaches even when the sea is far too cold for a swim.

Brits seem congentially more adventurous than most other races. We move from town to town,and even from country to country, migrating to africa asia and the americas, and then to the west coast of america, as far as it was possible to travel on the planet.

Boating lets you be close to the mesmerising water, allows you to satify that wanderlust, and more besides. In the med, for example, the sea is warm, less dangerous, and good for a swim.

And almost wherever you are in a boat, there's a view. This is no ordinary view. It's not like almost every single vista that you will behold on land. On a boat, you and your craft actually ARE the view, an integral part of what makes it so special. Nothing else comes close.
 

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An interesting post which is sure to confirm the beliefs of may forum participants who,like me, believe you've been round the bend for some time now. I have been deeply distressed by the Carling advert where that sod on the desert island butchers the crab after all the help it gave him and so am somewhat relieved that the lobster population is getting a second chance.

I enjoy my boat because it means that for a while at least I am ruled by wind and tide and not the mundane workaday existence which is the constant threat of everyday life. So it is a form of escape - and when I'm sat in yet another dreadful meeting and funding cuts loom and extra duties are loaded on and students become less academic as we dive headlong into this microwave world of effortless instant gratification - my memories of slipping off quietly at break of the day from a secluded anchorage, or gliding along a shaft of moonlight on a deserted sea somehow offer me a peace, sanity and reason. Thats why.

Now ....about my pension!

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For me it's kind of a mobile holiday home, somewhere to escape to the sun every couple of weeks and just chill out. Arrive, take off my watch, turn off the phone and relax for a few days in the sun. For me there's nothing better than lying in a beautiful empty bay (ok, not so empty in August) and letting the world go by, drinking sangria, eating simple tasty food and regular swims around the boat. If I'm really energetic then out will come the RIB with a doughnut behind. It's a great feeling heading back to the marina in the early evening with your skin feeling like you've caught the sun and had a good day out, looking forward to tying up, having a drink and then getting changed and going out for dinner/drinks/club/party.

It's a place for going with family and friends, building close friendships and having fun (and this doesn't alway have to apply to opposite sex but it helps!).

I also can't contemplate lying ona beach any more. No food and drink on tap, no music and sand in your sun cream! Sometimes might take the tender up the beach to a beach bar but that's about it.

Now boating in the UK - don't get that at all. Seems to me a bit like camping but a lot more expensive!
 

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Well, I grew up by the water, the Solent has always been my stamping ground, more than anything I like to get away form the traffic and hoards of screaming kids, plus its nice to go to new places and pubs.

I often, weather permitting, go to the boat straight from work and sit there with a paper, beer and fish and chips and chill out.

I hope to get further a field this year, but yep, you guessed, the bloody weather, and one other issue, see the new post I am about to make.

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Well thanks John, but I bet that crab tasted good, gets rid of the taste of crap lager.

Now, about your pension, afraid that particular company's gone bust.............................................try again!!

On the education issue I read somewhere recently that 58% of students at university get a first or upper second whereas 30 years ago it was only about 5%, do these figures sound right to you. Have a nephew who's just got a first who only just passed 2 A levels, another who got a 2:1, both of whom wouldn't even have got to poly 30 years ago. What's going on?
 

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Dumming Down!!
I got 7 O levels back in 1965 which was not bad then 3 a levels (1-A and 2 B-s). We see loads of profiles now with people with 10 gcse's and 4 A levels and they are just not that bright. That sounds awfully pompous -the grades are easier to get now - it helps politicians demonstrate how their investment in education is really paying off.

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Not sure about the ubiquity of seaside promenades. Stands to reason: in town, roads can go in any direction they want, but at the seaside, there's only half as many ways to go without getting wet. Don't be fooled into thinking that loads of pepole walking up and down alongside the seas means it's popular. At least half of them probably would keep on going straight out to sea if they could.
 

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age of 8 sailing into Benbecula at dawn
2 magical weeks round the hebrides had me hooked. Loved sailing fast and hard loved sialing slow.

I prefer to charter and have sailed for at one two week plus usually third every year for the past 11 yrs.
Go out there see where the wind takes you. If there is wind, go, if there aint stay or do a short motor to change the view.
I am able to to totally relax the minute i set foot on a boat. At the same time i am stimulated by setting a passage plan and executing it, in part, then changing it as the wind is in the wrong direction. I have to be occupied on holiday. I find i can be occupied sailing or can be occupied sitting at anchor in quiet bay watching the sun go down with a cold beer having had a swim, planning tommorrow's trip.
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I was born a raised in the middle of London. The sea was where I went of Holidays.
But deep inside I loved boats. Read Hornblower, and the like. My first real sail was on a Fireball dinghy in the Indian Ocean, Age 23. My next experince was a windsurfer age 30 something. My work took me on trips to the sea, Portmouth and the Solent area. I was introduced to someone on the IOW who sailed. I never believed I could afford a yacht which I constantly saw in the marinas on the coast. He convinced me it was possible. I brought one, join a club, was the joint club 'racing yachtman of the year' in my third seasons. Though I live 80 miles from the coast I used to drive down to the boat just to seat on it for half an hour. (sad). Move to Norway. So much empty water. New boat, new sailing area. My boat is how only 10 minutes away. Hate the engine, just love the sailing, Read, watched and followed anything on sailing, The Volve, The Clipper or the BT. whiching them on TV powering the Southern Ocean brings tears to my eyes. Love it, cant get enough of it. I still take all 4 main sailing mags. here each month.
But I still go down just to sit on board, this time in my lunch break. If I cant get out after work. Age, in my mind 38. but 55 (tomorrow)
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spelling wasn\'t one of them?

I take it you meant Dumbing Down <HG>

Personally I have 4 GCE O levels and a CSE Grade 1 in French plus 30 years of bloody hard work proving that I was just crap at taking exams but could do the work anyway!

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Re: spelling wasn\'t one of them?

No Peter - I meant dumming.
You have 4 o levels - my point is precisely this - by todays standards that would very probably equate to around 7. The whole exercise of academic rigour was much much tougher 30 years ago. Either that or we have bred a generation of super academics - which I don't think is the case.
I fully understand your point about not being good at exams - I don't remember enjoying exams either - but the process is much less demanding nowadays and as I said, it's very much about the systems which underpin league tables, performance, inspection etc - all political spin

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Re: go on then, spoil it then!

Hmm. A rethink required.

I go to sea because I can't stand it on land. I used to pace up and down the seafront, or gaze wistfully out from a riverside pub, just wishing I could pluck up the courage to chuck myself in and end it all. But it was all too public. I bought a boat hoping that I could simply drive away and meet my maker quietly, out at sea. But the boat was unreliable, so I had to buy a bigger one which has more chance of getting further out into the ocean. I did once chiuck myself in but some flippin do-goody bloke in diving gear fished me out and started feeding me with halfcooked lobster that he'd just found somewhere rather than bought in a nice clean supermarket.

Will this do?
 

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Re: spelling wasn\'t one of them?

Crivens, man........you have them for, what, 5 years? I've got them from when they retire and that's 20+ years. Wheesht wi yer whingeing!! You might try one of our meetings...these days we bring out the tarot cards with the pension statements.

I go to sea for the complete feeling of freedom...the utter joy of pointing her in any particular direction the tide will take me. However....it's changing very rapidly? I dislike what the Americans are doing but I've a sneaking admiration for GW Bush putting two fingers up to the International Court and telling Prescott & Blair where to stuff Kyoto - whereas the HMG/MCA have a very different view of what is in our national interest and bend over backwards for whatever lunatic committee decides is good for us...............
 
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