Welcome to the forums. Happy to give you benefit of the doubt.
She Who Must Be Obeyed.
Googling it would have produced a quicker answer.
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It's from Rumpole of the Bailey by John Mortimer. She Who Must Be Obeyed, his version of 'Er indoors, the lady wife. Never used by blokes who are <u>really</u> henpecked!
so what the equivalent for a bit of gender reversal!? I'm the sailor and boat owner and person who does everything on board.... what does that make my long suffering other half who is more interested in motorbikes and is reluctant crew only when I have none other...