The idea of being gently whisked along in silent elegance whilst you enjoy the peaceful journey and look around at the beautiful views - is a MYTH.
Sailing = endless rope pulling. Pull that rope tighter - then the wind gets up a bit, so you have to let it out a bit. Then pull it in again etc.
Just when you think you've got it about right, you have to let that rope go and pull the rope on the other side, and repeat for the next x minutes.
And so on.
There's simply no peace, very little chance to look round and enjoy the view as you're too busy looking up at the sails or under the sails to see if there's anything coming you hadn't spotted.
This made me smile. Sailing is clearly not for you and you know that. But for me the pleasure I get from sailing is, in part, because of all that "endless rope pulling"! Looking at the sails and trying to work out what I need to do to get that little bit more boat speed; continually trimming, tweaking and learning. Overtaking another similar, or maybe faster, boat because of the effort I'm putting in (or wondering why that similar, or maybe slower, boat just passed me despite all the effort I'm putting in!!). And it's not just because one of us is burning more (or less) fuel.
It is possible to be gently whisked along in silence whilst enjoying the view. There's plenty of time for that on longer trips (and shorter ones if that's your preference). Sailing boats don't go very fast compared to motor boats, so there's plenty of time full stop!
Maybe your dad's approach was a bit too much like mine for your taste, but it doesn't have to be like that. Plenty of cruising sailors don't worry too much about their sail trim and just settle back for the ride. Nowt wrong with that.
So, in my view, it's all about perception.
Vive la difference!!![]()
Anyone had a go at it?
I've never had any interest in being puffed along by the wind, after all, that's how tumbleweed gets around...
But, lately, I must admit I've found myself wondering. So, anyone given it a go?
Obviously I could've put this in the sailing forum but opinions will be a bit biased there!
My father always loved sailing, so I had quite a few years experience of it - and I learned that it's definitely not for me.
The idea of being gently whisked along in silent elegance whilst you enjoy the peaceful journey and look around at the beautiful views - is a MYTH.
Sailing = endless rope pulling. Pull that rope tighter - then the wind gets up a bit, so you have to let it out a bit. Then pull it in again etc.
Just when you think you've got it about right, you have to let that rope go and pull the rope on the other side, and repeat for the next x minutes.
And so on.
There's simply no peace, very little chance to look round and enjoy the view as you're too busy looking up at the sails or under the sails to see if there's anything coming you hadn't spotted.
As for dinghy sailing - that's simply purgatory. Allow 2 hours to stand around in the cold (and wind, and usually rain too) to fit and adjust hundreds of ropes before you even go anywhere.
Then do as above but it's all a bit more frantic as timing is critical (otherwise you get seriously wet i.e. capsize).
Then allow another 2 hours to de-rig, which means removing all the bl00dy ropes you spent 2 hours fitting earlier. Whilst you're freezing cold, tired and just want to go home.
Oh, I forgot one key point. A major difference when sailing is you have to be outside, regardless of the weather, when going along.
It doesn't compare to having the option of being inside in a lovely warm cabin and driving from there.
And also - mobos have plenty hot water on arrival, and plenty of battery power too.
The difference in the level of luxury, comfort and relaxation (and therefore, for me at least, enjoyment) is huge.
Yes I can see the fun, and attraction in sailing, but for cruising it's too much like hard work to be enjoyable.
I'd rather be enjoying the scenery, and the journey, and the arrival.
Sailing is s**t. Going in a direction you don't want to go at a speed most glaciers can beat whilst sitting on a bench harder than a hard thing, freezing your bollox off and vomiting up your breakfast, all at an unnatural angle to the world. I did it once and wild seahorses wouldn't drag me back on board a sailing boat again. Don't do it
I did and that was my highly considered opinionThing to do is try both, weigh 'em up and see which one suits you - simples![]()
Sailing is s**t. Going in a direction you don't want to go at a speed most glaciers can beat whilst sitting on a bench harder than a hard thing, freezing your bollox off and vomiting up your breakfast, all at an unnatural angle to the world. I did it once and wild seahorses wouldn't drag me back on board a sailing boat again. Don't do it
Anyone had a go at it?
I've never had any interest in being puffed along by the wind, after all, that's how tumbleweed gets around...
But, lately, I must admit I've found myself wondering. So, anyone given it a go?
Obviously I could've put this in the sailing forum but opinions will be a bit biased there!
I am very happy on a yacht or dinghy, and love a windsurfer in warm waters. Started with dinghy's on the Sarf coast, did a couple of sailing holidays on the Norfolk Broads, and more recently have done the Round the Island race in Sunsails. Have also crewed a Global challenge yacht on the Solent as well. Fantastic. I really don't get this us and them thing.
Sailing is s**t. Going in a direction you don't want to go at a speed most glaciers can beat whilst sitting on a bench harder than a hard thing, freezing your bollox off and vomiting up your breakfast, all at an unnatural angle to the world. I did it once and wild seahorses wouldn't drag me back on board a sailing boat again. Don't do it
Sailing is s**t. Going in a direction you don't want to go at a speed most glaciers can beat whilst sitting on a bench harder than a hard thing, freezing your bollox off and vomiting up your breakfast, all at an unnatural angle to the world. I did it once and wild seahorses wouldn't drag me back on board a sailing boat again. Don't do it