Sad news

I am so sorry for your loss.
He was so full of energy, taking on big projects and his humour and provided much-appreciated brightness in this corner of the web.
 
I only just saw this. It's a real shock. He really came across as a strong character and I enjoyed reading his enthusiastic stories of learning to sail and the open and funny way he described his trials and errors with the various boats. He was a real contributor and the forum will be the less for his loss. My deepest condolences.
 
Hi Mrs Solent Clown. Once again my commiserations. I am not sure sure of the things you will need for the restoration but in my experience of boat people we all have gazillions of boaty bits lying around waiting for a new home. I have ( for example) a mast and roller furling forestay from a 30’ yacht that is sitting in my barn. Starting with a list as already mentioned would be a good thing.
Thanks for your advice about relationships it has touched my heart. Anything i can do to help please pm me.
Dave
 
This kind of thread crops up far too often here - and I don't remember one attracting so many admiring comments so quickly - a real tribute to the man.
 
I am so sorry to learn of Mark's passing. As others have said he was well received on here and this is such sad news for you. Please accept my sincerest condolences.

I know you both boated in the Southampton area. If you need any help with the practicalities of things concerning the boat at this difficult time, even if it is just someone to drive by occasionally and check it for you please ask.
 
I just seen this posting , I am shocked and to hear of Mark passing away he will be missed by all of us here .
My commiseration to you and all your family at this very sad time .
Vic
 
Given the circumstances I think setting up a fund is completely fine. I never contribute but would in this instance. Really nice chap we have all gained a lot from his approach to life and sailing.

Steveeasy
 
Mrs Clown, I'm so sorry to hear hear your tragic news. We met Mark when we were in the yard at Lauren. He was always interesting and engaging to chat with. His spirit of adventure and creativity mixed well with his engineering skills. The worlds of all who met him are a little darker now.
Allan
 
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Mrs Clown so sorry to hear about Mark. Sincere condolences. Very friendly and helpful man. Couldn't thank him enough for Aluoetter. Hope you are coping well. All the best
 
Mrs SC, I am very sorry to read of your terrible loss. I didn't know Mark, but his creative and adventurous spirit was a source of inspiration and just fun to so many people. Please accept my sincere condolences for your personal loss.
 
Mrs SC
There is no need at all to apologise, it is entirely normal to not cope. There are plenty of tasks that need your attention at the moment , most of which are going to add strain on your already overloaded coping mechanism(s).
Once some time has passed after the 22nd you will slowly start to get back on top of things.........it will happen and you will get back on top of it, BUT, it will take time, almost certainly significantly longer than you think.
There will also be sudden moments that it all just comes back and hits you smack in the face as if from nowhere. These events become less frequent with time and less severe. I am certain that we get these 'flashback moments' because we are loving human beings.... i.e you're normal!
The boats and the scruffy old blokes (and women) that sail them will still be here to enjoy your postings, and I look forwards to seeing them start again.
Take lots of care of yourself as it is easy to let stuff slide more than necessary at these times.
Kind Regards

Gordon
 
I"m sure no-one here expects you to post at such a time. You will be welcomed anytime you decide to return to the forum and even if you decide not to, we will understand. I hope those who posted here and the knowledge of any who attend the service, will help you recover from the devastating blow.
 
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