My Dear Papa

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Best thing is that there was nothing left unsaid between us and I have nothing but great memories of my dear Papa.

Don't wait until it's too late
Tom

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Pride yourself on the above! What more can anyone expect?
Approaching 40, and getting very morbid - just getting to know my Pa after a 20 yr gap. He's actually a bloody good bloke! As mentioned above, time is the most precious commodity - completely irretrievable if you lose any. Really sorry to hear of your loss, but I think you should be chuffed to hell that you can make such a statement.

Andy
 
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My parents split when I was 7 and mum brought us to England. I was 35 before I met him again, but we spent many an evening together chatting over a beer or 2 and getting to know each other again. That was 15 years ago and we've met regularly since. Last time I saw him we both knew it would be our last meeting somehow, hard to explain but we said our goodbyes.

A fond memory was a bar in Bergen when some bloke heard us chatting in English. He introduced himself and switched to German of which i speak a little. Papa astounded me- he was fluent! Being banged up in a prison camp during the war probably helped. He then switched to French which wasn't a problem then Italian which I speak before conceding defeat and leaving us in peace again.

Yes, chuffed as hell and hope I can say the same when dear Mum leaves us- a little bit more work to do here I think.

Cheers
Tom
 
Tom

Very sorry to learn of your loss. MacHurley and I were talking only on Sunday of your earlier posts about your father's experiences - they were memorable and very moving.

Learning bad news while aboard and enjoying oneself somehow makes it more poignant - it's happened twice to us. Our sincere condolences.

Donald
 
To all the good peeps to whom I haven't responded personally, thankyou all very much. Every message has been a small treasure for me and I just didn't want this thread to go on infinitum so please forgive my restraint.
 
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