MJWB
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No idea if it's an RYA rule. Not necessarily me wishing to be there either. It's daughter and I kicking ideas around and starting off the research at this stage.Is this an RYA rule or dad preferring to be there?
No idea if it's an RYA rule. Not necessarily me wishing to be there either. It's daughter and I kicking ideas around and starting off the research at this stage.Is this an RYA rule or dad preferring to be there?
What sad times we live in![]()
Yes, Sunsail UK, Port Solent, runs a “teenage week”. Instructors have enhanced DBS and RYA Safeguarding, as you would expect.Some interesting thoughts. Bottom line is my daughter is under 18 so I'll need to be there or it's an all under 18's course for her. Don't know if those still take place. Sunsail did them years ago as my son did one and had a marvellous time with a load of other lads and a male instructor……….
It's a real shame that it's necessary, but I reckon the sad times were when kids and teens were exploited and abused without recourse.On the contrary, the welfare of the child is paramount. Describing the requirement to ensure appropriate safeguarding arrangements are in place as indicative of "sad times" does not inspire confidence.
My wife who is a riding instructor did her course yesterday. Some of the statistics for abuse are staggering. Although most of her clients are adult it is still a requirement of her professional body. Unfortunately there are people out there who are not members who don't carry insurance, have first aid, criminal records clearance and child protection. I wouldn't be surprised to find a few like that in the sailing world.What sad times we live in![]()
I totally disagree. The measures are placed there because of things that have happened in the past. For example the Lyme Bay Canoeing tragedy, I could tell you a few stories about people abusing young people that would very, very quickly change your mind on the subject. Hopefully, some of the hoops we now need to pass through will make sailing and other outdoor pursuits safer and won't cause lifelong misery to some because of abuse.What sad times we live in![]()
I totally disagree. The measures are placed there because of things that have happened in the past. For example the Lyme Bay Canoeing tragedy, I could tell you a few stories about people abusing young people that would very, very quickly change your mind on the subject. Hopefully, some of the hoops we now need to pass through will make sailing and other outdoor pursuits safer and won't cause lifelong misery to some because of abuse.
A girl who's mature enough to go on a residential course should be mature enough to say no to young lads, but the adult in a position of power is much harder to turn down. To put it crudely, "You want to pass? Drop 'em".I was referring to the necessity of having to check everyone out these days Obviously, if I were the parent of a young girl, I would want the skipper checked out but suspect I would be more wary of the young lads trying to add another notch to their belts.
A girl who's mature enough to go on a residential course should be mature enough to say no to young lads, but the adult in a position of power is much harder to turn down. To put it crudely, "You want to pass? Drop 'em".
I'd have a LOT of sympathy for a dad who made sure someone who did that to his daughter never did it again.
Of course you did.I have seen it done before, I am sure if you ask a few sea schools then someone will be happy to help.
Don't forget to do your Day Skipper Theory before you turn up to the practical. You can do it online (I did my RYA Day Skipper Theory with Ardent Training).
Most of the RYA schools run mixed Ability on boats, I get the impression they prefer it that way so really shouldn’t be a problem and I have been on a training boat with a family of Mum, Dad and Son and the schools are there to make money so I doubt the are going to turn away two candidates.
I am sure you can find a school near, you can do both courses over three separate weekends or five consecutive days. Hopefully as COVID eases in the Summer they will go back to staying on the boat for the duration which I think was more fun.
Obviously you will have to do Day Skipper theory before the Day Skipper practical but Comp Crew theory is covered on course so get your daughter to lean buoy colours, day shapes, boat lighting colours, basic Collinson regs and the main knots otherwise it can be a bit stressful learning all that in a week IMHO.
I used Elite Sailing School in Chatham who seem fairly good value and have good availability as the run three school boats pretty much full time.
Good luck and have fun ?
I very much disagree with this. DS level theory is very simple for most and does not take a lot of time. It could easily be covered during the evening after sailing is complete, or during the days while CCs are helming. It's no coincidence that this viewpoint comes from the business selling the shore based courses and books.There is not enough time during a practical course to teach the shorebased content
I very much disagree with this. DS level theory is very simple for most and does not take a lot of time.
Care to outline your qualifications and experience that’s driven this point of view?I very much disagree with this. DS level theory is very simple for most and does not take a lot of time. It could easily be covered during the evening after sailing is complete, or during the days while CCs are helming. It's no coincidence that this viewpoint comes from the business selling the shore based courses and books.