npf1
Well-Known Member
That would be so if boats were like (say) washing machines - a utilitarian bit of equipment that we judge purely on its utility. But somewhere along the line, boats gain sentimental attachments, and someone making a (ridiculously) low offer may well be seen as insulting, to both you as owner (have I been such a bad owner that she's not worth what others of the same type are?) and to the the boat (Is the boat I have loved for years not worth my love?). Capricious ISN'T for sale, but if she were, I'd probably tell the broker a threshold below which I didn't want to hear of the offer - the broker would reject it out of hand, without upsetting me!
Our last boat probably fell into that category - much loved, done a lot together, plus irrational amounts of £s, time and sweat poured into it during the decade+ that we owned it.
Jonic kindly sold that boat last year. And yes, there was definately a price below which I would have decided to keep it. Had there been offers below that level, I might have done a BAFTA nonimee performance of feigning offence and even said 'jump off a pier', but I wouldn't have thought anymore of it, let alone be truly offended or stressed.
Now if I had needed to sell, the situation would have been completely different. A low offer would have been a blow, maybe even a reality check and, perhaps, a sign of things to come. But any upset would have been down to my expectations or needs, not something to be directed at the offeror. In fact, I may have been even relieved that there was a deal available.

