Advice on buying a new boat

Not sure why the fuss over mainsheet position.

Don't be put off a boat with mainsheet across the cockpit, quite handy if you can helm and control the mainsail when short handed, which you will be with young children!

Gybing is a lot easier too.
Despite the sailing benefits, I have to disagree with this, it's a liability for non sailors or the spatially challenged...
 
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