The Good Old Days

Forbsie

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If you lived as a child in the 60's or 70's, looking back,it's hard to
believe that we have lived as long as we have...
As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.
Our cots were covered with bright colored lead-based paint.
We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors, or cupboards,
When we rode our bikes we had no helmets.
We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle.
We would spend hours building go-carts out of scraps and then ride down the
hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a
few times we learned to solve the problem.
We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back
when the streetlights came on. No one was able to reach us all day.
No mobile phones.
We got cut and broke bones and broke teeth, and there were no law suits from
these accidents. They were accidents. No one was to blame, but us. Remember
accidents?
We had fights and punched each other and got black and blue and learned to
get over it.
We ate patty cakes, bread and butter, and drank cordial, but we were never
overweight...we were always outside playing.
We shared one drink with four friends, from one bottle and no one died from
this.
We did not have Playstations, Nintendo 64, X-Boxes, video games,
65 channels on pay TV, video tape movies, surround sound, personal mobile
phones, Personal Computers, Internet chat rooms ... we had friends.
We went outside and found them. We rode bikes or walked to a friend's home
and knocked on the door, or rung the bell, or just walked in and talked to
them. Imagine such a thing. Without asking a parent!
By ourselves!

Out there in the cold cruel world! Without a guardian - how did
we do it?
We made up games with sticks and tennis balls, and ate worms,and although we
were told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes, nor did the
worms live inside us forever.
Footy and netball had tryouts and not everyone made the team.
Those who didn't, had to learn to deal with disappointment.....
Some students weren't as smart as others so they failed a grade and were
held back to repeat the same grade. Tests were not adjusted for any reason.
Our actions were our own. Consequences were expected. No one to hide behind.
The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke a law was unheard of. They
actually sided with the law - imagine that!
This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers and problem
solvers and inventors, ever. The past 50 years has been an explosion of
innovation and new ideas. We had freedom, failure, success and
responsibility, and we learned how to deal with it all And you're one of
them.
Congratulations to all who have had the luck to grow up as kids,
before lawyers and government regulated our lives.......
for our own good......



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Whn we got a bit older and learned to drive we bought a car or motor bike for thirty quid. Mended it, painted it, stylised it. All by our selves. We had no breath tests, yet I dont remember many getting killed. No one had a knife or a gun. No one had a new car. I wonder where they came from?

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Well said Forbise... i sit and look at my kids now and wonder how they will cope when hey are older.. thinking that a good meal consists of a limp burger and chips so small they make toothpicks look fat.

The TV is never off, always watching a music video of an over paid singer slagging off everyone else. Assuming the latest repeat of teenage american rubbish isn't on again.. (Sabrina etc). Not understanding that not so long ago, TV started at noon and there were only 3 channels...

They don't know what 999 is, they think the emergency number is 911.. we don't have rubbish we have Trash or garbage... and "Z" is now referred to as "Zee" (thanks sesame street... apprecaite the fouling of the english language for that!)

Ask them to bus or bike (perish the thought of walking!) round to a friends and they look at you as though you are on another planet.. "but you have a car and you are only reading a book... why can't you take me?"

And of course "I'm bored.. there s never anything to do here"

I must be getting old...
 

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We used to go and see the Beatles, Kinks, Small Faces and loads more. Down the local dance hall.And all for 50p. Borrowed an eight ton truck to get there and took all our mates. Called at every pub on the way.

Walk, bike or bus. Five miles to school. Did detentions, got cane'd, straped and slippered or maybe rulered and cant remember doing much wrong. Maybe thats why we did'nt.

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But it's all relative, isn't it?

Not many kids used to die when they bounced around loose in the backs of cars; even fewer die now they're strapped in. Only a few people drowned because they didn't wear lifejackets, even fewer do now. As a 10 year old, I used to muck around in a dinghy on the Hamble with no lifejacket on. Thinking of my own kids now, I cringe at the thought, but it never bothered me then, 'cos I didn't know any better. Having said all of which, I think it's gone too far the other way and we are now too risk averse; I suspect that the pendulum of history will correct the swing at some future point and our kids will laugh at how over protective we were. I also agree that a blame and compensation culture has done serious damage to the concept of taking responsibility for one's actions. Oh gawd; now I'm sounding like an old f@rt.

But it's traditional to moan about the youth of today. Two quotes:

"Alas, Oh God's will; 'twas not so in my day.........." - John Aubrey (17th Century biographer and wit)

"The Good Old Days are good because they've gone" - WC Fields (I think)
 

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"we bought a car or motor bike for thirty quid. Mended it, painted it, stylised it. All by our selves"

some of us still do... though we take a bit of stick for it.. /forums/images/icons/wink.gif

miserable bunch a' buzzards.... and look who the leader is... might have guessed!

gordon, can you PM me with your number... thrown my old diary away...DOH!

see ya soon, steve.

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Totally sgree, but

If you were a child in the 40 and 50's.

We spent our days hunting for bombs and bullets, played on bomb sites, few toys no bikes.
Come the 50's we made what we wanted, be it a race track or a den, normally 10 foot square 2 foot deep, roofed in corrigated sheet earth and grass, lined in dry grass heated by a fire lite by candle. We had a swimming pool and a boating pool, but no life guard.
We had fog, they were the nights to play, just see one lamp post at a time, one set of the rest were hunters.
We had fire cans and throwing arrows, come bonfire night I would not mention.
What you had you shared, if you had a pair of roller skates, you had one your mate the other.
We went train spotting, 4/5 mile from home, by the time you were 12 it was 40 mile from home, but was there an adult was there hell, you learnt independance.
We had no telly, just a radio, so what, mate next door had ITV, we all rushed in to watch the adverts, then went out to play
You got detention for not wearing your cap in town, not giving up your seat on a bus to a lady, not opening a door for a lady, how they found out, we never found out.
You walked or caught the bus, a bike they were rare, a car what were they, the Mayor had one.
Later you got one £10 a time, no seat belts, heater, washers, radio, no MOT, no speed limit, police cars were black with a bell, no bags to blow in.
Sex education was the next door but two's chicken house, but there was never a pregancy.
Out of all mates that got married, only one has got devorced.

The list is endless, would I change it ? would I hell.

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Factually Incorrect

Good night out was 10 bob. Which when you come comes to think of it meant that you had less weight to carry as everything above 20p was paper.

And played rugby without fear of law cases.
Thought a holiday in Wales was great fun...
Gays were poofs and not talked about..
There were 2 Super Powers and we thought we were one of them
A chinky in London was a rare site and
Thankfully....Aussies liked their own country and stayed there


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Re: Factually Incorrect

No there were no puffs then. Or at least no one knew about them. Worst thing there was, acording to my mother anyway.

She used to say. Well he's a nice bloke. But he does not smoke! Everyone thought, better watch him then. Must be something strange about him.

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There was a song that went something like"eee the good old days,we had evrything then,ricketts,TB,malnutrition,worms,nits,etc
 

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Re: Birthdays

He had a pressie this morning and they'll be more for him tonight.

The water skiing was very successful. We didn't actually leave the marina, we just took turns in being towed by the dinghy around the pontoons much to the delight of onlookers - I do believe the press turned up, so look out for pics in the local press

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Water skiing piccies

Difficult to look in the local press unless by chance a Somerset County Gazette photographer happened to be walking by.........................................

You'll have to post them on here;-)
 

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Lambretta, Francis Barnett, Triumph, Chopper bikes, Stermie Archer gears, Bird nesting, camp building, Scrumping, Cars called Austin or Singer with wipers that went faster when the car went slower, stick on bullet holes, tobacco tins.
Don't get me started....

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and..........

Landrovers with the wiper motor on the inside of the screen, Brumas the Bear, No TV on Sunday evening 'til 7.00 p.m?
 
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