Not boat related, but if born between the 1930's & 70's Please Read!!

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Not boat related, but if born between the 1930\'s & 70\'s Please Read!!

Seen this once before and it made me smile... so now sharing
it with a group who I reckon will appreciate this...


CONGRATULATIONS TO ALL MY FRIENDS WHO WERE BORN IN THE

1930's 1940's, 50's, 60's & 70's!


First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they
carried us and lived in houses made of asbestos.
They took aspirin, ate blue cheese, raw egg products, loads of bacon and
processed meat, tuna from a can, and didn't get tested for diabetes or
cervical cancer.

Then after that trauma, our baby cots were covered with bright coloured
lead-based paints.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when we
rode our bikes, we had no helmets or shoes, not to mention, the risks we took
hitchhiking.

As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.

We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle.

Take away food was limited to fish and chips, no pizza shops, McDonalds , KFC,
Subway or Nandos.

Even though all the shops closed at 6.00pm and didn't open on the weekends,
somehow we didn't starve to death!

We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE
actually died from this.

We could collect old drink bottles and cash them in at the corner store and
buy Toffees, Gobstoppers, Bubble Gum and some bangers to blow up frogs with.
We ate cupcakes, white bread and real butter and drank soft drinks with sugar
in it, but we weren't overweight because......

WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!!

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back
when the streetlights came on.

No one was able to reach us all day. And we were O.K.

We would spend hours building our go-carts out of old prams and then ride down
the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. We built tree houses and
dens and played in river beds with matchbox cars.

We did not have Play stations, Nintendo Wii , X-boxes, no video games at all,
no 999 channels on SKY ,
no video/dvd films,
no mobile phones, no personal computers, no Internet or Internet chat
rooms..........WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!

We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no
Lawsuits from these accidents.

Only girls had pierced ears!

We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us
forever.

You could only buy Easter Eggs and Hot Cross Buns at Easter time...

We were given air guns and catapults for our 10th birthdays,

We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang
the bell, or just yelled for them!

Mum didn't have to go to work to help dad make ends meet!

RUGBY and CRICKET had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't
had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!! Getting into the
team was based on
MERIT

Our teachers used to hit us with canes and gym shoes and bully's always ruled
the playground at school.

The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of.
They actually sided with the law!

Our parents didn't invent stupid names for their kids like 'Kiora' and 'Blade'
and 'Ridge' and 'Vanilla'

We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned HOW TO
DEAL WITH IT ALL !

And YOU are one of them!
CONGRATULATIONS!

You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated our lives for our own good.

OK, so now you have read it, what can you add to the list...

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Re: Not boat related, but if born between the 1930\'s & 70\'s Please Read!!

Oh how true is that statement , love it !!!!!!!! Brought back soo many memories

The damn world or at least this country has gone bloody mad, bring back the good ole days i say.....

Thanks for sharing.
 
Re: Not boat related, but if born between the 1930\'s & 70\'s Please Read!!

We used to leave home at least twice a month, taking a bottle of water and half a loaf, but would be back for tea!!

Dive into the canal from the road bridges when a barge was approaching, in order to get coal thrown at us by the bargees, then dive to retrieve it.

Many many other pranks and sometimes unlawful escapades we got up to, but were always keeping a wary eye open for the local Bobby.

How on earth did we survive !!
 
Re: Not boat related, but if born between the 1930\'s & 70\'s Please Read!!

:-) Made me smile, and i like the sentiment, and agree much of it. I despair about much of today's elfin safety culture as much as others on this forum, but let's not forget that we are reading this because we survived. There are many folks who are sadly dead because of eating medicines with no childproof lids, travelling sans seatbelts and airbags, etc.
 
Re: Not boat related, but if born between the 1930\'s & 70\'s Please Read!!

when the local bobby caught us nickin apples and plums from the local allotment, he cuffed us round the ears then dragged out by them threatening to tell our Dads. We thanked him for being so nice and letting us off and not actually telling our Dads who would have walloped us again...! We did not try to sue him (Dad or bobby) claim brutality and we didnt end up with an ASBO!!

eeee by eck those wer't days....
 
Re: Not boat related, but if born between the 1930\'s & 70\'s Please Read!!

Firstly I must respond to JFM. I accept without question that people die and and kids die, in fact, we all die it's just that some of us have far more fun before we do it!
Now to a part of my story of youth.
I remember scrumping and getting caught and cuffed.
I remember the local Bobby providing me with a hefty clout for misbehaving (setting a rope swing on a lamp post), and accepting this summary punishment for my misdemeanour. Always preferable to letting him take me home for me dad to decide on an acceptable punishment, or even worse, and for more serious pranks, letting him take me home to tell my dad that he had had reason to cuff me! Ouch!
I remember leaving home on more than one occassion as outlined by Omega2, and it never lasted more than a few hours. In fact, on one occassion of my seeking the freedom of the great unknown with a cake and a bottle of pop, it was my arch enemy (Brian the local Bobby) that talked me into a tearful repatriation with my mum and dad. (lets be fair, I was the grand old age of 8 but ready to face whatever the world could muster).
I also remember swinging on a rope across a railway viaduct with my mate's dog. This do or dare brindle boxer named Sid, was hanging by his teeth onto the improvised knot I was sat on. I launched myself across a 15 metre deep valley, it was accidental you know, the dog hanging on that is, he just couldn't resist, we were all laughing and shouting, he just got a bit carried away (so to speak). Unfortunately the river was in the next arch of the viaduct so it was hard terrain all around. It required a more or less perfect swing back to the sloping embankment to safety, or there would be problems! I will never forget, my mate (Sid's owner) as white as a sheet. The great unwashed gathering of street urchin pals with us, absolutely hysterical with laughter at such a sight, and, (so I felt), the dog (Sid) most probably praying for deliverance to the great dog in the sky as he sailed across the great void and back whilst also seeking a holy confirmation that his front incisors now clamped on to the roughly cast knot were sound!
Great fun indeed.
Though we all feared for Sid's safety. He was fine and only dared let go when his hind paws again met the ground.
He then retired from such daredevil acts, whilst we didn't. We just laughed ourselves to tears about the antics of that day.
"Sid the swinging dog became a folk hero in our small adventurous kids community. Everyone knew of Sid the flying dog".
I fully endorse the sentiments of Firefly625 and support the additional comments of Gilly1 and Ripster.
There are very few youngsters today that are afforded the luxury of a free and exploratative childhood.
In fact the only time I see youngsters provided with any real latitude to gain real life experiences is through the careful partially controlled environment that most of our boating fraternity parents and carers enable for their adventurous youngsters. Acceptable risks with mature adult supervision. OK so not quite the mad freedoms that we had, but much more than others in their peer groups will be allowed to experience.
Long live the freedom of youth.
Yes I am still alive despite my youth and the silly things we did, but at the very least I know I have lived.
Good old Sid you may be pleased to hear lived out a long but rarely peaceful doggy life and succumbed at the great age of 16.
Mike O
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Re: Not boat related, but if born between the 1930\'s & 70\'s Please Read!!

Agree with all the above, but its only relevant to our generation.
You can't miss what you haven't experienced, I dare say if you ask our kids how their childhood was in 30 years time, they will feel as we do today.
If they don't keep up with technology (their social existance), they will be deemed unusual.
Just as we did as kids, they want to be accepted and appreciated.
 
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In fact the only time I see youngsters provided with any real latitude to gain real life experiences is through the careful partially controlled environment that most of our boating fraternity parents and carers enable for their adventurous youngsters. Acceptable risks with mature adult supervision. OK so not quite the mad freedoms that we had, but much more than others in their peer groups will be allowed to experience.
Long live the freedom of youth.

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that's one of the reasons that I got a boat. I grew up with mad boating parents so every weekend and holiday we spent sailing. Whenever we arrived at a new marina or harbour the first job was pumping up the Avon Redcrest and going exploring, we would be gone for hours but probably to the frustration of Mum & Dad we always came back when we were hungry, and no Mobile to keep in touch, however did we survive! I do remember on more than one occasion having to row damn quick to avoid being rammed by some boat or other... but we would have been in the way, so fair enough!!

But I believe that in today's world boating still has the ability to let your children once again experience the freedom we did all those years ago to explore and have un-supervised fun.. But probably with a mobile or handheld VHF to hand!!
 
Re: Not boat related, but if born between the 1930\'s & 70\'s Please Read!!

Chips fried in dripping,inch thick beef dripping sarnies,from sunday roast!Butter from the farm near our house spread thick on fresh white bread!Ham from the farmer,it used to hang in the kitchen from a beam.Helping to get hay in,riding on the tractor and on occassion driving it!!Cycling round the countryside with my pals as a a ten year old and yes only going home if you were hungry!!No TV only the radio to make you use your imagination.Deprived childhood now means not having the internet at home!!
 
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That whole tale has bought a nogalstic tear to my eye, no really..........memories of places and people from the past.
Lovely.
 
Re: Not boat related, but if born between the 1930\'s & 70\'s Please Read!!

Luv it!

One thing I notice about younger people now who grew up in a more controlled environment is less self reliance and a greater expectation that things should be just there for them
 
Re: Not boat related, but if born between the 1930\'s & 70\'s Please Read!!

As a Child of the 70's - I think I had all of them except for the cane!

I remember cycling to the chip shop with 30p for a sausage and chips ... must have been all of 7-8 - cycle helmet????


Spending time messing about under a half ruined pierhead making imaginary ships etc out of planks.

Sitting on a skateboard all the way down the Church hill........... no brakes, steering .... protective clothing?

Being brought to Butlins and my parents not expecting to see me between meals - I seem to remember a label on my coat with a Chalet number on it though!

Rope swings that were on 45 degree slopes ... when I go back to those spots now I wonder how I'm still alive!

going off across the fields for the day.

Picking veg out of the fields and peeling them using rusty old milk churns and any other old farm implement handy and eating them so we could stay out longer.

Climbing to the top of any tree - making sure to touch the very highest leaf - even if the tree top was doing it's best to drop you the ground at the time!


Sign of the times though ... must go give Junior 2 his bottle! I wonder if he'll do any of that - probably not if I can see him but knowing his personality probably yes if I can't!

J.
 
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