Divorce, remember?

[mirabriani]

If peeps are interested.
There are all sorts of development which may stimulate discussion.
Like he kept Ferrari AND house!
He gets away with intimidation and violence!

Happy New Year Briani

 

[FullCircle]

I remember, sadly, I remember.Hold the faith,as my new life, in which I never look back or harbour wounds, is giving me wry satisfaction. After several years, my thieving ex is broke and unwell, and is likely to remain in those two states with little help, as she has no real friends.
On the other hand, I lead a stress free life now, and enjoy every moment I have with my partner. I haven't taken a pill for stress throughout 2004, and only a couple in 2003.We looked last month- they are out of date in February 2005.
With the support of family and friends, life is very rich (without money too!!). I wish your family peace and tranquillity for the rest of their days.

Yours contentedly.

 

[powerskipper]

who!!

 

[masterofnone]

Thanks for the update.
He obviously had the better lawyer and accountant to hide the cash prior to disclosure order, more learned forumites than I, would be able to advise if there is any chance of recourse.

 

[mirabriani]

My niece, bless her, just wanted out.
This had been coming for 3 or 4 years
Yes there was time for him to prepare.
But it was not really necessary, she was so desparate,
she said yes to £800 a month and a modest house.
Sounds good? maybe, but he keeps the big house and a
substantial company.
I do not think a disclosure occured

Regards Briani

 

[Joe_Cole]

Depending on their ages/length of the marriage/number of children/their respective contributions to the finances it may well be that she has got a good deal. From what you say it's all been finalised which means that the courts will have OK'd it all.

 

[mirabriani]

Yes, the court OK'ed it, because she was under all sorts of pressure. However she says she still does not know her position, ie divorced or not?
There are three children. Lifestyle, four holidays a year in top hotels in fine locations.
Having spent some time with my family recently, rather than his, she is getting madder and feeling stronger.
Dearheart and I are just wondering, is all too late now?
Regards Briani

 

[Aeolus_IV]

Having recently been through this I believe that financial disclosure is mandatory for both parties which the court does review, and once the absolute is completed then its a done deal.

Regards, Jeff.

 

[masterofnone]

I went thru a v.accrim divorce in 95, ended up sellin bus, etc. I now have a female friend just completed final stages. He founder and chairman £15m value company, settled for house 400k, monthly 1000, no pension provision etc.She has 2 kids, 1 v. poorly.
When I got divorced I felt hard done by, Now I see the other side of the coin.
It is v. easy to hide assets if you have time, even the disclosure will not unearth them, as you do not have to disclose assets you dont now own.
Time is a great healer, I wish your niece all the best.