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Scaramoosh and poppydog have come on here attempting to justify themselves but to me that says more than anything. No experienced and competent yachtsman would sink to their level at a time of stress in terms of shouting and swearing at innocent party, especially when that innocent party had come to help. Not only that but this was hardly a life or death situation just a berthing cock up and we've all been there and got the t shirt on that one, in the vast majority of cases without it resulting in a foul mouthed tirade. I would have been a lot more impressed if they'd have joined this thread to admit that they had simply lost it and apologise for their behaviour. Perhaps their attitude goes some way to explaining how they got into that situation in the first place
I think the bit that would have annoyed me is if someone else had tried to take over as skipper. It's more than trying to help: saying you are "in charge" and starting to give contradictory commands to crew is a mini-mutiny from ashore. The correct thing to do would have been for the dockie to ask the skipper what help was required, and if no answer, then see if there was obvious help that could be given anyway, e.g. grab a line.
Having said that, swearing and shouting almost never helps in any situation, other than in close proximity of a recently thrown grenade with no pin.